Gaining

Personally, I don't find the idea of funnel feeding to be appealing. I am not interested in someone being physically forced to eat fattening foods.

One the other hand, I find it very interesting when a woman is addicted to fattening foods and is somehow "stuck" in a state of uncontrollable consumption. I like it, when it's all in the head of the feedee or foodee. I like the idea of a foodee who is so gluttonous and addicted to fattening foods that she is just has to give up weight control and accept that she is (possibly) getting more and more obese.

I like submissive women but when it comes to feeding, I like it when a woman have to submit not directly to me in this regard, but to her own gluttony and to the foods that she is craving. I definitely like the idea of a submissive foodee who is completely unable to control her own weight, even if she wanted to.

It's not necessary about weight gain either, it could be that she is already very fat, that is fat enough for me and is unable to lose the weight.

I also like it if there is an element of the woman losing sight of what is a normal level of consumption, like she is after years of overconsumption and spending time with similarly obese friends believing that it's fully 100% mainstream to eat lots of fattening fast food and drink lots of regular soda pop every day.

In the same way, when it comes to exercise, I like it when she has to submit to her own laziness, obesity and general unfitness, so that she has to accept that waddling to the car is the only exercise that she can and should do.

I see my role more as a person who is pointing out to her how lazy and overfed she is, perhaps sometimes giving her a fattening gift that she is unable to resist.

Is there anyone else who have similar thoughts about addiction, gluttony and laziness?

Yeah, basically.

It's why I'm not interested in trying to gain, or be force-fed etc. I love that my fatness and weight-gain come from my own natural gluttony and laziness, my inability to stop or control my eating or my weight. I don't need to try to get fat, I'm just destined to be a fatty. Getting fat isn't the turn on for me specifically, it is the getting fat as a result of my lifestyle.

Yeah, that's pretty much how I feel. The feeder's job is mainly to help her be as gluttonous and lazy as she wants and to feel good about it.

Could be added that it's something attractive about the loss of self control to the point that describing the woman as being "overfed" is very accurate, although there is no forecefeeding involved. I guess that's how I like to put it, I am attracted to overfed women, regardless of whether they think of themselves as foodees for feedees.

I am not really sure if am more attracted to foodees or feedees. The woman of my dreams have a obesity that at least to some degree is (or has been) out of control. However, it's important to me that she is reasonably comfortable with being in that state, like she has given up and fully accepted herself as a very gluttonous, lazy, obese and unfit person.

I also like the whole idea of a woman who is heavily influenced by her environment to get fat.

For example, I like the idea of women who have grown up with parents who have been very permissive when it comes to fattening foods, so that by her early 20s, she has acuquired not only a very obese body, but also very lazy and gluttonous habits and lifestyle patterns that are almost impossible to break.

In the above, permissive parents could be substituted with lazy and gluttonous friends, relatives, coworkers or an online feedee/foodee community.

I once visited a chocolate factory and we were shown the production line. There was one point at the line where it was permitted to take samples. It was at the end of the line, right after the packaging machine. I don't know if it was a co-incidence but the woman whose task it was to supervise that particular part of the line happened to be an SSBBW, altough most workers in the factory were rather slim and fit

Another favorite of mine is obese workers at bakeries, candy shops or fast food places.

@cincinnatus- I agree. There is just something about a woman just completely lost in her own gluttony. Just being incapable to just say no to her appetite.