Gaining

I need help making a diet plan

I have been talking with my girlfriend and explained that I think chubby girls are cut and one thing led to another and she agreed to start gaining.

Reason 1 why she is doing this, she wants to make me happy.
Reason 2 and in my opinion a very good reason, she is 5'4" and weighs 90lbs. She knows she is at an unhealthy weight but can never keep weight she puts on.

I toled her she should start eating more meats and dairy products along with drinking whole milk (I also said if she was feeling up to it she could try drinking heavy cream). I have never done this before so I don't know what els to tell her, her goal is to get to 100lbs and then if she likes it 110. Any advice would be lovely.
10 years

I need help making a diet plan

Diets? Isn't part of the fun of gaining NOT having to diet? Why not just make sure she has a huge variety of goodies on hand at all times? Note which ones disappear the fastest and get more of them. Or just check out "How to Get Fat" on my site.
10 years

I need help making a diet plan

AskDrFeeder wrote:
Diets? Isn't part of the fun of gaining NOT having to diet? Why not just make sure she has a huge variety of goodies on hand at all times? Note which ones disappear the fastest and get more of them. Or just check out "How to Get Fat" on my site.


Because I want her to gain weight in a healthy way with a balanced diet. If I just wanted her to get fat I would tell her to eat cake all day XD
10 years

I need help making a diet plan

11qwaqwa wrote:
AskDrFeeder wrote:
Diets? Isn't part of the fun of gaining NOT having to diet? Why not just make sure she has a huge variety of goodies on hand at all times? Note which ones disappear the fastest and get more of them. Or just check out "How to Get Fat" on my site.


Because I want her to gain weight in a healthy way with a balanced diet. If I just wanted her to get fat I would tell her to eat cake all day XD


I never said they have to be unhealthy goodies!

But whatever you do, make it fun. Putting someone on a diet plan sounds like a chore.
10 years

I need help making a diet plan

The only problem with that is she does not eat very much even with all the food around. That is why she asked me to come up with a plan for her, and I want to do it the best way I can to keep her healthy.
10 years

I need help making a diet plan

OnyxStar wrote:
Id go with a mix of carbs and fats. Even healthy fat like olive oil, meat, nuts have a high fat content- especially cashews, peanuts and pistachios. Avacadoes, bananas, pineapples, any fruit like that. Melons and strawberries dont have too much natural sugar and are mainly water, so those dont work too well. Potatoes, and grains work, if the meal doesnt have too much protein/fiber in it, it will take longer to fill up. Insulin will rise and fall, and then you will be hungry again shortly especially if using white grain products. Peanut butter is good, roughly 100 cals per Tablespoon, can add up quickly. Heavy cream is good, but if her body is t used to ingesting a lot of fat, 1/2 and 1/2- really good with chocolate in it. Ive been trying to mix starches/sugars with fat, it seems to work better than straight fat, or sugar, or carbs by themselves. I dont have the biggest appetite, but its better now.
Also, fluid intake. If she is drinking lots of fluid before the meals obviously she will be more full. Often the body will process thirst as hunger, so what Ive been doing too, is eating until full when I get that feeling, then I will drink my water or whatever.
There are tons of ways to gain healthily. I would suggest looking into bodybuilding sources on the net or even type in a search about healthy weight gain. A lot of body building sites have bulking diets especially if she is looking to add muscle too, as protein is very good for that.
Anyway, congrats smiley It takes some courage to admit preferences to people sometimes. I hope things really do go very well for you two!
Happy Gaining smiley


Thank you so very much. This was extremely helpfull for us, hand thank you for your best wishes smiley
10 years

I need help making a diet plan

Hehe OnyxStar seems to be very know in such things of what to eat to gain weight :-)

I really could imagine her in such a kind of story where the smart female doctor pretends to help you slim down only to make you gain secetly ^^

mhmmm.....
10 years

I need help making a diet plan

Really you wrote stories and didn´t knew ????


I always knew this was weird but said to myself ok i not like that and this i don´t want to kow what i would have made when i was like this haha.

So i always thought well a belly is a cute thing and since i tend to like more the smaller gains to chubby yeah it´s not so apparent fr everybody ;-) ....

I only was thrilled when i found more ppl like this on the internet and thought ok not so weird .....:_)

Oh please show me your stories ;-) since your mindset seem quite interesting concerning all your answers i would like to read them ^^.

But it´s always nice to see when something makes sense hihi so good for you ^^
10 years

I need help making a diet plan

OnyxStar wrote:
I dont have them now, as I was only about ten years old when I decided I wanted to be an author and write a fiction novel about the mean girls having a fat spell put on them. I was going to call it "Never say never" Hahaha... Childhood.

If I do ever write anything like that, which I have thought of doing recently, I will be sure to post them. smiley


Oh now i´m curious about what you might write .....:_)
10 years

I need help making a diet plan

OnyxStar wrote:
Thanks! smiley

Any luck yet?


A little, mostly it's just the weight of the food in her though. She's still getting a feel for it. Neither one of us has ever done anything like this.
10 years
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