metroidnerd wrote:
I agree with you all completely, there needs to be honesty, integrity, and transparency when it comes to this type of thing. But i think there's a compromise that can be had here ... I noticed that a lot of you guys love the secrecy element to the whole thing, the thought of being "tricked" into it, so why not agree to that as well? If you're going to admit that you love the thought of gaining, then why not go a step further and also admit that you love the thought of being actively fattened "without" your knowledge?
I personally am the type of person who would spend vast amounts of time meticulously planning everything out in advance, down to the tiniest details, to ensure that that weight gain goal was as mindlessly easy and obtainable as possible. I actually kind of like the thought of being a "secret" feeder ... and even being outsmarted at my own game or "getting caught" as well. But such things are only possible if you both have agreed to participate in feedism in the first place, and also if you both understand what "secrecy" elements the other person is okay with. That way both parties are aware of what is happening, and there is no "Surprise! You're fat" element to it.
And of course, if you get a no, then that means no. That applies to any aspect of any relationship.
Es that´s not really easy to explain ????
Best thing would be spill your hearts out about everything and then play certain role ideas from time to time and forget about that you bothknew ^^
;-)
