OnyxStar wrote:
Sorry about the pesky "4" in the title... I wanted to fit all of it in there.
As some may know, I have committed to gaining... Finally
I used to try and figure it out, now that I have (as much as the internet will let me, anyway) I have another dilemma.
I have noticed an increased need to feel like my gain is noticed, especially by my partner. It would involve being humiliated about my gain and called numerous names and such. I normally wouldnt want that, but now, it seems wonderful.
I got over the fear of what others say, I guess this is confirmation because I was never into that when Ive gained before and then lost due to pressure.
My question is, has anybody else experienced this?
Sorry about the pesky "4" in the title... I wanted to fit all of it in there.
As some may know, I have committed to gaining... Finally
I used to try and figure it out, now that I have (as much as the internet will let me, anyway) I have another dilemma.
I have noticed an increased need to feel like my gain is noticed, especially by my partner. It would involve being humiliated about my gain and called numerous names and such. I normally wouldnt want that, but now, it seems wonderful.
I got over the fear of what others say, I guess this is confirmation because I was never into that when Ive gained before and then lost due to pressure.
My question is, has anybody else experienced this?
I make comments about my girlfriend's weight gain. But I try not to do it too often, otherwise it loses its meaning. If you're just calling someone a piggie all the time then it becomes old.
Sometimes I prefer being more subtle about it. Like for instance, if my girlfriend sits on my lap I'll make a "oomph" sound to suggest that she's getting heavy. She'll give me a dirty look but I know she enjoys it.
But sometimes a "damn honey..you're packing it on" while pinching her belly is what the situation calls for.
10 years