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Yeah, that's a pretty common thing that happens. I've run across a lot of bland conversationalists in my time here. A lot of them only seem capable of multiple word responses in "fat-chat".

I always prefer to open up the conversation by establishing whether we have anything outside of feederism in common. I try to figure out what they're into, and what not, so we'll have more to talk about. Sometimes it doesn't work though, and the bland conversationalist remains a bland conversationalist.

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I do not enjoy 20 questions, it makes me feel put-upon. And it just...makes the whole conversation feel artificial. I want interaction that's organic, and unique, and fun, and...and...well a lot of things.

Yes, you usually will end up running into people who give you one word answers or just absolutely no content to your questions.

Though you have to understand the nature of the site. Some people are just looking for certain things. A quick fix, or some attention?

Though actual conversation will always weed out who is worth talking to (if that makes any sense). I found out that the Chatroom is a great place to meet people to talk to. I have made a number of friends on here by just starting to chat there. Hopefully this helps

If you're putting in the effort to start a conversation/maintain a conversation thread and they're replying with nothing for you to reply off of then they're probably not in to you or they're probably not worth the effort at least in terms of compatibility. Just keep doing what you're doing. Both sides should be equally active in the conversation.

I promise i can do that ;-)

but i know what you all are talking about i rarely get an answer that´s even more embarassing :-(

I try to steer the conversation away from feeding. Unless thats what the other person is interested in talking about. There should be some interest from both sides in thr conversation. Otherwise, its only going to get more awkward. Lol