Gaining

Gaining but staying healthy

In my case weight gain depended on my age and more with when my metabolism finally slowed down a bit. Which is the case with most guy's.

So I was tall and really lean muscle and could not gain any weight. I would lift weights, drink huge calorie weight gain shakes, eat fast food & junk like donuts etc. when I was younger to try and get as much calories in to gain. I would gain some weight after several weeks to a month with eating and consuming many many calories maybe 5-7 Lbs. but the workouts turned it mostly into slightly bigger muscle still lean and I couldn't even pinch much belly fat at all. Back in those days I was trying to get the all over bulkier build and didn't mind some belly fat, in fact I kind of wanted a belly along with bulkier muscles. After i slowed down on eating that much, which was impossible for me to keep up, I would lose all the weight.

All of a sudden when I hit 25 yrs. old my metabolism changed and I began to gain weight. At this stage of my life I wasn't playing any more competitive sports and I had a desk job. My eating fast food and junk food any time I wanted didn't change. in the course of 2 years my total body changed from Tall, thin lean muscle to Big, bulky muscle with a fat gut. I gained around 60 Lbs. in that time. During the beginning I didn't even realize I was gaining weight because I never could ever gain weight before without huge effort. During this time I was living with a serious girlfriend and she was always cooking and baking and we were like a young married couple.

Obviously all these factors played a roll but it is usually age, metabolism changing and stage of life with activity.
Mine happened to develop all at the same time and it was a big bang.

As far as your Partner eating a bunch of junk food, I don't think it is that terrible being that he is so under weight and if he is fairly young. It would be a good idea to try and have him consume a ton of carbohydrates along with protein to give him a hearty base along with fatty desserts afterwards.

How old is he? Do you want your partner to gain a lot more?
10 years

Gaining but staying healthy

If you ONLY eat junk food that's pretty dangerous. But if you basically eat healthy, some junk on top of that isn't so bad. Get your checkups as you go, make sure your blood levels are okay.
10 years

Gaining but staying healthy

Interesting blog by a woman who gained in a healthy way:

growingcurves.blogspot.com/
10 years