actually.. yes I have once or twice... Not on here but in real life.. not in a sexual manner, but just in a derogatory manner in general.
Actually.. Now that I think about it again.. "I'd love to see that unwrapped" And the ever so classic "Are u a gainer?" Bit... So now that I think about it, yeah it has happened to me on here aswell.
People have the right to say whatever they want, and sometimes they will take it too far, and in directions that we don't like.
It isn't a gender thing... It's a people thing.The reason why it's so common in males here to assume girls are automatically into the gaining thing, is the message the site presents to you in it's design. Look at what's above the Y in "fantasy feeder" It's a fat lady eating a piece of a cake.
It gives the presumption that this is what women on here are for. That this is what the site is about, and yet it's grown into a larger community beyond that...
It's just out of date, and out of touch with the fanbase and sends the wrong message.
Of course that doesn't mean those that don't take time to read through a profile they comment on shouldn't be blamed either. Read before entering, you'll get far better results unless that person has absolutely nothing that describes their likes and dislikes in the first place... Theeeeeeen it's just sorta all up in the air from there, and a wise move to wait for them to fill it out a bit more.
But when it comes to the whole guy's vs girls debacle... gotta consider who you've invited.. if you only invite guy's, of course you're going to see only the best or worst of guys. I'm sure if you gave the hint that females are welcome you might see the best, and worst from females aswell.
10 years