I have been an encourager of my wife's weight in the past and currently. I finished up my reserve military service and am no longer under any weight/fitness standards. I have started gaining and have put on around fifteen pounds in the last two years. I'm currently heavier than I have been is years and I am enjoying the feeling of the extra weight. My wife tried to diet last January and went on a serious eating healthy kick. I ate burgers, pasta and pretty much stayed with what in the past had been our usual fair. I enjoyed the irony of she trying to lose while I tried to gain. Good luck, hopefully you will find someone.
9 years