Gaining

Social life

Or that it is so non-correlated for them that they didn't have much to say. I suspect that for most people social life has more to do with desire for it, confidence, and life circumstances.
9 years

Social life

It is more one's attitude than their weight. I remember years ago going on some blind dates. One night I had a date with someone who was a size 16 and she was totally miserable and no fun to be with. The next night I had a date with someone who weighed around 375 pounds. I like to spend a lot of time with someone I am seeing, and she had too busy of a social life to give me much time.

Of course, it also depends on your target audience. If you are gaining weight anddating people who like fat people, it's a plus. If you are gaining and dating people who like thin people, it's a negative.
9 years

Social life

AnimalNoises wrote:
How has gaining affected your social life? Do you go out more or less than before? How has it changed your interactions with the opposite sex? Are you more or less comfortable in your body now?

And most importantly, we're you fat before gaining?




Here is a take on this....in which I experienced!


Many years ago when I was in a accidental at first / then mutual gaining relationship it went like this for us.

We became less social around many couples friends especially if the event wasn't centered around food.....like a big dinner out. Mainly because both of us were more interested in eating. There also was the occasional embarrassment with teasing from our couples friends who would constantly point out that we looked like a fattened up married couple since we moved in together.

We tended to hibernate in on the weekends and eat and enjoy our own company and eat some more.

Even though our mutual gaining was intentional at this point, I don't think either one of us could of slowed down with how much we became accustomed to eating, not to mention we were very much in love. We enjoyed just being a happy Fat loving couple who liked getting even fatter.

So ultimately we became much less social especially around our friends that we had when we were thinner.
When we were by ourselves stuffing and eating together it was like Utopia but the minute we were around our couples friends with our new Fattened up figures we both seemed very insecure.

I would imagine it is similar in most of these couples settings comparing the circumstances.
9 years