Gaining

So early on in our relationship when we were dating my now wife mentioned and made it seem that she wouldn't like it if I was fatter. With subtle joking comments like "I would get your but in the gym if you got a big butt like that guy". Although I never really would get a big butt....that just isn't my figure. As far as a big belly I assumed it must have been the same situation with her not liking it.

She did however a few times way in the past, when she was under the influence of alcohol, actually pat and shake a few guy friends of our's bellies. They both happened to be bigger and have some really big guts for guy's our age back then. I mean they had the kind of guts that people on this site would be very envious of and really adore.

So fast forward many many many years later. I have unintentionally gained many times and a few years ago decided to intentionally gain after realizing I accidentally put on a noticeable amount of weight. I intentionally kept gaining trying to get some comments or a reaction out of my wife. I actually became consumed and extremely aroused by myself getting as fat as I could. I believe It was so intense because there had been a lack of my wife gaining for many years and her being near the slimmest she had been for a long time.....although she was slowly starting t gain back much of the weight she had previously lost. Anyhow I kept eating and gaining, while straining to fit my huge Gut at this point into any of my dress slacks, shirts and jeans. She still mentioned nothing even with a 30+ Lb. gain over several months. I stuffed all the time and after a while eating that much was not a chore but became a necessity. In fact I was like a Fat glutton always needing deserts after every meal and many snacks in between until it almost seemed like I was eating continually throughout the day. A few months later I was nearly 45 Lbs. bigger and most all of it was in My huge muscle chub Gut. My wife never commented other than a couple times when she was once again under the influence of a few cocktails at the time and was nothing more than some patting and jiggling me.

So, it has been probably more than a year and a half since I had the biggest gain and Gut of my life. But I have still not lost to the point where I am below 230 Lbs. So the other day I stepped on the scale at the gym and it said 244 Lbs. So once again without really noticing I sneakly gained 14 Lbs. over the last few months. But this time I think my wife has noticed it or has expressed it earlier on this time. The other night for dinner after preparing me an obnoxiously huge plate of mexican food for dinner (2 huge Burritos, cheese enchilada, beans, rice as soon as I finished she said "can I get you another plate"?
I thought to myself "are you kidding me" barely being able to move after all she fed me. I said "No, I am full". The next day we were out with some friends and My friend said in front of both of our wives "I can't seem to lose any weight these days, I just keep getting bigger and bigger". I didn't reply and before I knew it his next comment was directed at me, he said "It look's like you have found a few Lbs. on your waistline as well". I felt a bit embarrassed and my wife commented "I think he still look's hot". Wow, did I really hear that?

So the next night when we were out to eat at dinner, I couldn't take my eyes off of my wives overly plumped and fattened lower belly straining out through her now very tight dress. As I glanced again her big belly with overly big lower belly was spilled out onto her lap while seated. As I was finishing my meal she reached over and gently rubbed and caressed my belly and said "did you get enough to eat" I said "yes" and she then asked "was it enough to fill you up" I was in awe just as I said "yes" she gently slid her hand under the crease in my lower belly while I was seated and continued to gently cup her hand sliding gently back and forth under the extreme roundness and size of my belly overhanging my waistband which is much to tight again these days.

I have so many questions as to what this recent action on her part might mean.

Does she show these subtle signs loving me getting a bigger Gut only when she has been drinking because she is to embarrassed otherwise?

I don't know....any thought from any women feeders....does she have feeder tendencies?

Thoughts to this may shed some light

Signs do seem to point toward her appreciation of your expanding waistline. Though, as MrsJellyBelly said the only way to be sure is to ask.

I know.....It's just easier said than done. Here is just a little insight into my wife.

My wife happens to be one that is fairly reserved and makes it hard to approach on these types of subjects. Not to mention she is very strong headed which makes it even more confusing to approaching with my gaining as well.

In the way past I use to always talk to her about her gaining some weight and she became very tired of any conversation about weight gain. When she started to gain weight I wouldn't bring anything up in fear she would try and lose it. Even though I would tell her nothing but positive things, like... You look so great ....you are so sexy and beautiful etc. etc. there were several times when she gained a pretty good amount of weight and I brought up ....you look so beautiful.... she said frustrated "so what are you telling me is, I have gotten so Fat, I am so big and Fat now" and I was kind of in a silence for a bit and then regained composure and said "I think you look so beautiful". She said "thats great you like me Fat, well I am a big Fat ass now." "It's disgusting that you like me this Fat"....all I could say is "I love you and I think you look Beautiful".

So, obviously that put me back several stages in weight gain talk as you could understand. I kind of held it all in and just silently looked on when she happened to be in a gaining stage.

Many years after we were married she became pregnant and we had our three babies back to back to back she never had time to lose much weight in between the pregnancies and as a result gained close to 60 Lbs. total in which she didn't lose. In fact the best part was she finally hit a psychological point where she kind of accepted that she was bigger now and it was almost fine with her. Plus we had our babies and she was had less time to worry about being thin. She actually started gaining more because she kept her appetite like she had when she was pregnant. She was much calmer with me and would even slightly tease me with her heavier figure. It was almost like she appreciated that I liked her fatter now all of a sudden. She had a bigger appetite for not only food but sex as well and she looked so damn hot at this heavier weight. Not only was she unbelievably beautiful to me but I would see other guy's checking her out all the time. I even commented to her several times "do you see all these guy's always checking you out? She said "I have seen a few, guy's must really like Fat women these day's"

For many years now she has dropped down from over 200 Lbs. on her 5" 3" small frame to probably around 160 Lbs. currently.

So who knows maybe she just has feeder tendencies and maybe she likes me getting fatter at her hand but I have a hard time thinking of bringing it up directly to her.

Maybe she wants me to be the Fat one and her to fatten me up so she doesn't feel as big if she gains weight?

Great advice....I just got to get over the hump.

I might do more of that after a night out and she is a bit tipsy so that maybe she opens up a bit more like I have seen.