Fat experiences

Is it comfort weight or just me?

It is probably that and a natural tendacy on their own.

I'm speaking from a guy who likes the feel of fit with his body, and likes the opposite of that with the opposite sex.

So there's my viewpoint. I can think of two longer term relationships with girls who just are the 'type' you're talking about. Of course both as per society demand, professed to hate it.

Yet they were so....good at 'it'. Finding comfort in food and just any means in general to make anything 'easier'; in other words be as lazy as possible just cause.

I'd say this is obviously true in that type of man as well. A relationship is supposed to be a comfort zone to 'indulge' in and be comfortable. Food and 'laziness' of this sort is on a primal level too.

I never had a hand in any of it either. Two said girls both went up at least 40 lbs, putting both easily over 200 at average female height. That's not huge on here. But enough to put two already thicker and chubbier female frames into noticably 'fat' section. It's probably even more since neither liked giving concrete numberds, those are just the minimum vagueness. One even seemed be aware she would hit 300 at some point since all she wanted was kids and an excuse to be lazy.

It goes the same both ways I guess. A guy could function on a relationship for that, letting loose what they are obviously the type to even 'let loose.' Though 100-150 is pretty high here. Unless there's some medical thing... I stand by my reasoning here
9 years

Is it comfort weight or just me?

Well if you eat lots of fattening goodies and you date someone who doesn't usually eat like that, just being around all that food could easily cause them to gain.
9 years