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This is very interesting to me. I am a 63 year old man (who made an unfortunate choice in screen names), and also have a loving wife, grown children, and a professional career. Yet, here I am, looking at the lovely fat women with their big soft bellies and wishing that I was with any one of them.

I'm glad that there are ladies of my age posting here. I sometimes feel funny looking at pictures of young women who are younger than my daughters, but I tell myself that I'm not looking because they're young...

I am often surprised at how old or young some people are based on what they are saying. I like to hear from the more experienced voices, as otherwise things devolve into either newbie questions or thinly veiled personal ads. I wouldn't consider the discussions we have here as out of character from the rest of my life, but because of the sensuality I don't really have other outlets to share the pleasures of stuffing sessions or the arousing sighting of fresh flab.
I wonder what the average age and weight of the membership of this site is.

I could not agree more with what you said and like Tubby Marie and Softly 1, I am a successful businessman (now retired), normal, a straight ahead guy, who thinks about fat and ogles bellies all day long. Like you I often look at obese men and wonder what it would be like to be that fat and have a massive belly like their own. And I just get so aroused looking at fat women with large bellies overflowing their jeans or slacks, jiggling and quivering with every step, luscious rolls encircling their waists. Being older, I really appreciate women like Tubby Marie and Softly posting on this site. I think they are beautiful and I love sharing our fetish together.

Oops. I made the leap in my mind that the part I feel guilty about is the that sometimes the forum skews younger and more single, where I don't have any business.
Maybe it's demographic or cultural, but I don't think anyone would be shocked by my love of fat. Lol, indeed.

Yeah I get this. Husband, father, good job, mortgage etc, and thinking about fat women constantly, and always looking for new pics on here and on Dimensions.

I have a slightly obsessive personality, I have a couple of other (not remotely connected to FA, almost the opposite) things I'm obsessed about and it bothers me sometimes.

Then I figure the things I love / obsess about make me what / who I am, and that, actually, many people have no real passions or obsessions and so have , I think, very grey lives, and I feel thankful for how I'm wired.