Lifestyle tips

When they finish a plate offer them seconds without asking.

Keep thier favorite snacks easily available. replenish often.

Tell them how good they look as they get fatter

I am sure everyone would have a different take. But I would think that an encourager would be more into having the gainer do the feeding, where a feeder would be buying and feeding food to the gainer.

An encourager tempts you to eat that little bit more, tells you one more bite can't hurt, leaves snacks around, continuously offers food and tells you exactly what you want to hear as you grow, maybe that you look fine, maybe that yes you are getting fat, but more will look better..

An encourager influences.