Fat experiences

Obviously feeders and feedees come in all varieties but for me I would say a feeder is a complicated and sometimes conflicting mix of both sub and dom. I tend to think of the feeder role as one part tender caregiver and one part controlling sadist. But again, that's just me.

I would say it all depends on context and what the nature of your relationship is.

I think it totally depends on the dynamic between the two. I'm dominant in feeding and outside of feeding. But I've found this varies from relationship to relationship. There's a vast spectrum of dominance and submission, and I've found the key to a successful and satisfying relationship is the energy between the parties involved.