Same here, but from the other side. (FA)
My preferences did intensify over time, but not about my body. I can still get attracted to thinner women, and I was always being able to be attracted to women somewhat bigger than what I found ideal, but both my ideal and the upper limit of desirability slowly increased over time.
Long ago, my ideal was a normal-ish, slightly chubby build, and I remember a photo of a "woah, she's really fat, but I still like her" girl, forming the upper limit of my desirability back then. Looking at her photo now, she doesn't seem really large at all.
As my "preferences" intensified very slowly but surely over time, I now got to the point of looking at a blob of a woman, waddling heavily, her wide hips blocking the way, her belly not just bouncing but swaying around, one half of her butt wider than a regular person, and I can still think that just a little more weight would look good on her.
My preferences did intensify over time, but not about my body. I can still get attracted to thinner women, and I was always being able to be attracted to women somewhat bigger than what I found ideal, but both my ideal and the upper limit of desirability slowly increased over time.
Long ago, my ideal was a normal-ish, slightly chubby build, and I remember a photo of a "woah, she's really fat, but I still like her" girl, forming the upper limit of my desirability back then. Looking at her photo now, she doesn't seem really large at all.
As my "preferences" intensified very slowly but surely over time, I now got to the point of looking at a blob of a woman, waddling heavily, her wide hips blocking the way, her belly not just bouncing but swaying around, one half of her butt wider than a regular person, and I can still think that just a little more weight would look good on her.
7 years