Takeyourpride:
What part of gaining for your feeder makes you feel this way? What is your fave part?
When my wife "formally" took on the role of feeder, and we started to talk about making goals, and really being active in my gaining, she started to make rules. Simple ones at first, specific to gaining: You will eat everything I tell you to. You won't stop until I tell you to. That sort of thing.
Then it extended to other elements, like telling me what clothes I would wear. Feeding started to become a very significant part of our sex life, and so that started to fall under her control as well (including bondage and force/tube feeding).
Eventually the sweet, cute name calling extended into humiliating names, and her domination just seemed to naturally grow and expand (much as I grew and expanded!).
Finally, at this point, she is physically dominant as well, being fitter, quicker, more flexible, more agile, and just generally more able than me, and I require her assistance for so many things.
It has been a wonderful transition and experience, succumbing .
to my mistresses' will