Gaining

This will always be a part of you, whether you are active in it or not. As far as your boyfriend's weight, you should have a discussion. As far as your weight, you will have to make decisions. I think if you discuss your boyfriend, you will learn a lot about yourself too.

Start out slow. Tell him you like to rub his belly. Ask him if he's always had a little belly. Talk about food, and what it does to the body.