Startnew:
Oh, and live in the same city!
Yeahh, that's a big one. Distance is a big problem in this whole community - everyone tends to be so far away from each other, often in different states/provinces or countries!
Startnew:
i know but sometimes that can be confusing. I mean during foreplay I never ask if I can touch nipples/ass/chest/legs and other sexy bites all the time. so why the belly? It is equally or in some cases sexier and more sensitive. And he was not even that big, just a bit soft on the belly. He liked it when i cooked for him and didn't mind to show it ; ) so i thought he wouldnt b that weight ibsessed. In the end we split for other reasons but I just hope I didn't cause him any confidence issues.
That's very true about the belly, it''s also a lesser known erogenous zone (heightened sensitivity) as well, particularly within the navel and the lower belly:
en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Erogenous_zone#Abdomen_and_navelMany people find stimulation (kissing, biting, scratching, tickling, caressing) of the abdomen to be pleasurable, especially close to the pubic region. It can cause strong arousal in men and women, in some even stronger than stimulation of the genitals. The navel is one of the many erogenous zones that has heightened sensitivity.[23] In a 1982 study of eroticism in dress entitled "Skin to Skin", Prudence Glynn claimed that the waist symbolized virginity and that it was the first place that a man would touch a woman "when indicating more than a formal courtesy".[24][25]
The navel and the region below when touched by the finger or the tip of the tongue result in the production of erotic sensations.[23][26] Madonna has told in an interview to the SPIN magazine (May 1985 issue), "When I stick my finger in my belly button, I feel a nerve in the center of my body shoot up my spine.
He himself may have had confidence issues with it, or he just may just have simply hated the touch of it there - for example I've met others who can't stand the idea of getting a foot rub or anything despite not having any issues with their feet, and some people who have been gainers and shown off their belly yet still not wanted any belly rubs at all and haven't been into them. Everyone's different like that.
Since it was just a one-off and you were already into caressing everywhere else just fine it probably didn't cause him any issues though at least hopefully, he seems like he was just letting you know where his limits were. Still a shame though.
