General

I don’t know what makes me want to be fat. For years I actually had a ‘lipophobia”, fear of fat. Over the past few years, however, I developed a strong desire to get really fat, and I did. I got my belly up to 49-50”,weight to almost 230 lbs at 5’ 6”.

Due to back surgery my pain specialist told me to lose the weight. I got my belly down to 43-44” and my weight to 206, but it did nothing to help my back.

Now, showing how strong and inexplicable this fetish is, I seriously have every intention of gaining back some weight. I’d like to get my belly to about 45-46” and maintain that. I like seeing my belly, and I miss it!

Like most people on here, I've been aroused by weight gain for as long as I can remember. Part of it might have been my mum's attitudes to fat people, she would (and still does) point someone out if she saw anyone fat in public, and she was always concerned with her own weight, sometimes poking and grabbing her own stomach. Maybe my little brain hardwired fatness as a 'naughty' thing and therefore started becoming aroused by it.


This is interesting. The first thing that I can remember being into when I was about 6 or 7 was violet beuregarde inflating into a blueberry, and as I got older I started looking into weight gain and inflation. It started out at all cartoon stuff or comics, but more recently i've been drawn to real-life people , sloppy eating and loss of mobility.
Same fetish, different angles I guess =)

i don't understand how anyone can touch fat, whether thru hugging a fat relative, or being able to squeeze a chubby arm or pat a fat belly, and not be attracted to it!

fat just feels so amazing! it feels wonderful, and i have never understood how societal conditioning could over-power that innate wonderfulness of fat... it is a mystery to me.

once going thru puberty that attraction just becomes all the more primal, i think!

My theory: askdrfeeder.dyndns.org/evolution.html

I think it's something we just have, starts with a curiosity and then develops into a fetish. From personal experience I grew up not idolizing fat but I didn't reject it either. It wasn't until I saw an episode of Garfield called "Nighty Nightmare" where I saw him eat and eat so much that he out grows his house and wanted to keep eating. That was where the idea of getting so fat actually got me aroused and I would learn later on.

Interesting fact, Hansel and Gretel was always my absolute favorite fairy tale along with a few others, but it was right up there with my again absolute favorites 😂

Aside from the visuals really enhancing the female form, for me it's the reality that the person is "out of control" or is submissive – they're overpowered by their own gluttony and the power of food. There's something inherently kinky about it.

Even as I child I was always turned on by kinky mind control stories. It's a very large genre in literotica and has many ties to feederism IMO. MCStories.com is a great site btw.

Heavy people may try to hide their fatness, get teased for it...or they may be super confident, highly successful in their career and seem like they have it all together....but at the end of the day, inside everyone knows, that person is going home at night and submits their mind and body over to food. They can't stop it. And the evidence is plain to see as they grow and grow....their gluttony literally transforming their body and face.

rofl

Pregnancy.

When my wife became pregnant she loved the feeling of being bigger. She gave away all of her old skinny clothes after the pregnancy.

And it was the constant feeding, stuffing and late night begging for fast food during her pregnancy that awoke me to being a dyed-in-the wool feeder.

It was the night after Halloween she accidentally ate ALL of my son's candy and made me secretly run out to replace it. I was so aroused – it was then I looked into this being "a thing".

I have to admit mine was recognized out of being an asshole.

She was in my grade 7/8 classes at a 7/8 school. I was 11-13. I had just basically gone along with the crowd. You make fun of fat people and this girl was the token fat girl. Everybody did it at one point or another. I even happened to get her for that 'Secret Santa' game we did in one class. What did I give her? A TV dinner.

Me being the young idiot I was I still hadn't fully comprehended my sexuality at the time. It wasn't until sometime in the summer after this school that I realized what I really felt.... I was extremely attracted to her and she was absolutely beautiful. She even had the personality to back it up. She never seemed to be ashamed of her weight and was also quite content with it. Despite being bullied by so many people she always stayed strong.

I managed to track her down online (back in the days of MSN) years after those school days and apologized for being such an asshole. I didn't admit to liking her though. That was about it. And that was going on 10 years ago.

I've seen her in a couple of odd times in public since. Never said anything. Just admired that she's still just as (and probably more) fat as always. Seems to be the always has been, always will be type. The prefect body: think everywhere, big fat boobs, ass, and a round belly. And she always appears to so fully enjoy herself.