It sucks, but unless you can, and do, completely suppress these desires, your relationship is probably doomed.
Not to be mean, because I REALLY feel for you ... but she has told you flat out that this is not what she wants. She is already pushing back on what you are doing. Either she is going to suddenly discover she likes it after all (maybe a 1% chance), you are going suppress it so she is comfortable, or the clock is ticking.
I hope to be wrong ... but in any case .... good luck.
8 years
