Gaining

I think for some, unrestrained eating and gaining is a crucial part of this fetish. Weight limits can undermine that.

Limits often don't work anyway. Say you weigh 130 pounds and your limit is 180. When you get to 180 you'll know much more about being 180 than you did before and will have a better idea if it's a good place to stop or not.

I'm not saying you should never stop, just don't stop until you want to.

Anyone agree? Or not?

I think setting inital limits is bad. Trouble may arise when someone decides to hold you accountable for your word. Perhaps it just lends people the idea that they are in control of their often ravenous desires. Set your limit when you reach it.

I absolutely agree. Just trying to establish best practices.