Lifestyle tips

Hey y'all! I was wondering if anyone had any advice for my boyfriend and me when it comes to sex. Here's the details...

Me: 5'5, ~315lb, former athlete with very muscular large thighs and belly hang

Him: 6'5, ~350lb, less athletic and carries weight pretty much everywhere but mostly in belly, just over 8" hard

Now... Neither of us have ever had trouble with the act before. My ex was a lot smaller though, 5'9 and 280 with 6.5... as were his exes (except his first was bigger than me, but he was also probably 100+ pounds lighter then)

Before we met in person I had no doubts we would have amazing sex. But, when the time came... Missionary was pretty much out of the question, so I got on top and this works pretty well but it still isn't...great. We have been "practicing" and we are getting closer and closer to what we imagined, but it's still super awkward and difficult to find a position that REALLY works... Be it because of both our bellies, or my thighs (even though I'm fairly flexible they're difficult to part completely when I'm on my back making missionary a hell of a chore to get right). There appears to be some, like...angling? issues as well. I'm at a loss with this as I've never had trouble with sex before... It was always super easy and natural.

I'm confused because it's not like he "doesn't have the equipment for the job"... What are we missing? Any advice on positions or anything else?? Anyone in the same predicament?

Thanks y'all!

Doggy really works in my relationship, tho hes just shy of 300 and I'm only 220. But part if it is angling. I have to basically have everything but my ass on the bed, face almost pushed into the matress to get my angling right.
Hope this is a bit helpful. If not then I'm sorry.

Im around 350- my wife is 6 inches taller than me, but shes also around 350- we Bone Daily, sometimes twice, usually around an hour to an hour and a half- we start out laying next to each other, her on her back, and I lay on my side- we usually play with each other until one of us cant wait anymore, at which point the Hornier of us goes first, if she gets on top, she can ride like a porn star- its crazy, fat flying everywhere- and about 20 minutes of this, we trade places, she lays on her back, legs in the air, and as long as theres a fan going, neither of us have any problem getting off, sometimes twice- we are quite athletic during our intimate time, resulting in both of us very exhausted afterwards- the only issue we ever have is if i get too hot, i deflate like a baloon animal that was poorly tied- so we keep the fan going for sure-

The moral of the story, just do what works, but dont be afraid to be adventurous- i beleive that whether you are Fat or skinny, if you arent worn out by the time you are "done"- then you didnt do it right...

Also- while you are sharing intimate time, dont be afraid to aknowledge the obvious... If your hands arent trying to hold your body steady while hes doing his thing, they should be all over him- legs, belly, boobs, llightly pinch his nipples, grab some belly and pull him into you harder- Play with his fat! And likewise, if he isnt using your belly to pull himself deeper into you, show his hands where to go, dont deny your fatness, its there, take advantage of it, after all, our skin is our largest sex organ... Love handles are called that for a reason...

I am 6' 2" 250 and 6.5 inches. I have regularly had relationships with women from 5' 3" to 6' 0" and 350 to 500 lbs. It seems like every one has a different sweet spot position.

The 500 lb woman was 5' 6". Missionary actually was our best position. She would pull her belly up. I put her legs up against me, reach around her legs, and grasp her hands. We banged hard in this position. She came and so did I.

The 6' 0" woman weighed about 440 lbs. Missionary was okay, but doggie was the best. I rested my belly on her ass. We were on our knees and we fit together perfectly. Doggie was our go to position.

Another woman was 5' 8" and 390. Missionary was okay. We experimented with different positions and discovered that me sitting in an armless chair with her riding me reverse cowgirl was amazing. She eould hold onto a table or brace herself on the bed. We both came frequently in this position. Her ass covered my belly up to my chest in this position.

A woman who was 5' 3" and 375 was best at riding me. She got on top, I braced my elbows on the bed and we grasped hands. She ground back and forth on my cock and I came almost every time in this position.

If nothing seems to be clicking, I recommend watching videos of fat couples. There aren't a lot out there. xHamster has some. Those might give you ideas. I hope we get to hear how you do. Good luck.

I guess i forgot a couple important things... First of all... Hair, no matter how clean you are, traps bacteria, then you get unpleasant odors and such- i recommend you shave... Everything.... Not your head obviously, but from the neck down... And im not talking just one, but Both of You- Arms, Legs, genitals- seriously it makes all the difference having all hair shaved smooth- add some (not the cheap stuff) Baby Oil- and really enjoy the feeling of having nothing between skin-

I use a Braun Foil shaver... Its amazing how close it gets, and how easy it is- my wife uses a disposable Bic Razor which works great but regularly draws blood- and you can help each other shave- use it as foreplay-

And I understand that it seems like a lot of work, especially as a daily thing, but the 30-60 minutes i spend shaving every day is very much worth it knowing how awesome sex becomes when you do it...

I shave my pubes. I have very little body hair elsewhere so I am close to hairless. I do prefer my partner to be shaved. The skin-on-skin feeling is amazing! Especially with 600 lbs. or more of fat and skin!