cdn-ffa:
What you do, imo, is leave. No one gets to give you an ultimatum on your own body.
She's probably not attracted to fat, which honestly the majority of people aren't. But she chose to date you, so it's actually her that needs to be reasonable.
It's your body. You control it. And if she's the type to give "stop X or lose me" threats, I can pretty much guarantee even if you give in that it's a matter of months before she issues her next ultimatums to change you.
What you do, imo, is leave. No one gets to give you an ultimatum on your own body.
She's probably not attracted to fat, which honestly the majority of people aren't. But she chose to date you, so it's actually her that needs to be reasonable.
It's your body. You control it. And if she's the type to give "stop X or lose me" threats, I can pretty much guarantee even if you give in that it's a matter of months before she issues her next ultimatums to change you.
Well said!
4 years