Personally I've always found weight gain to be a masculine thing. The problem is that most ssbbws seem to be feminine. I like a huge belly and very small breasts as well but most ssbbws or bhms don't have that sort of body.
I like "slobbish" BBW's which has many of the same strains of tomboyism; particularly when my wife hangs out with all of her longtime, now fattie, friends. They're all in sweatpants, big shirts munching on pizza and beers all night.
I remember when most of them we're in college, skinny and dolled up all the time in heavy makeup and skimpy clothes.
