Ditzy:
If he is too lazy to even make an effort he really doesn't want to.
I would kick him to the curb or make him think I would if he doesn't get his butt in gear.
Well, when he moved in with me he put on 40 lbs in a few months easy but now hes working again so hes burning more calories again. So not easy to pack it on. I think he thinks I'd break up if he doesnt gain more, I've never persuaded him otherwise...lolol