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Anyone been badly burned on feabie?

StarSmoke:
I have been badly burned on Feabie, FF, and Dims. It happens all over the place. Honestly FF is the worst of it for me, it’s incredibly rare to find someone genuine on here. Feabie has been great aside from a few clueless idiots who run it, but it’s easily customizable to hide anything you don’t want to see plus it’s not super restrictive like on here. Is Dims still around? I had a fallout several years ago that made me never want to go there again but it didn’t seem to be doing very well for a while at the time.[/quote]

Complete opposite to my experiences.
I have found FF to be the friendliest and the most genuine place.
Feabie was the worst, the main page just a space for attention seekers, drama queens, and begging desperate's. If you are a straight man on Feabie it is a waste of time even typing anything, because the mouthy feminists will just gang up and cuss you off the site.
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Anyone been badly burned on feabie?

They all seem about the same to me, same people, same issues, same scammers.
So really between Dims, FF and Feabie it literally is "Same Game, Different Name"
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Anyone been badly burned on feabie?

I've never had too much of a problem on here because I know when to walk away from something that makes me uncomfortable (which hasn't happened on here so far). That said, I've also never wanted to branch out to another site because of reasons that people above me have mentioned. It's disheartening to hear negative experiences.
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Anyone been badly burned on feabie?

Oh yes, found someone's status asking about potential sessions, got talking over Skype and all seemed to be going well until they ghosted me on Skype, log in here one day and find the same person advertising their needs on here instead
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Anyone been badly burned on feabie?

Can someone just set Feabie on fire so we never have to deal with this nonsense anymore?
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Anyone been badly burned on feabie?

StarSmoke:
Well what do you have set as your main page? My main is my friends newsfeed so I only see posts from people I am following. Like I said it’s pretty customizable on there.


I don't have anything because I deleted my account.
I got sick of the fakeness of the place.
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Anyone been badly burned on feabie?

StarSmoke:
Looks like this guy got called out and deleted his account, which he apparently has a track record of doing that a lot. 😅😩

becomingoverweight:
He actually did reply twice where he explained his side of the story. From what he said it sounds like she was manipulating him and his wife for attention by pretending to be suicidal. I think he said that this got his attention because he used to be suicidal and one of his friends had committed suicide. So he and his wife were trying to talk her out of committing suicide. She had told them she was going to commit suicide and then went silent for 3 days. That's around the time he went around Feabie telling people she committed suicide. When she did come back, I... I can't really remember what he said happened. I think part of it involved her telling people that he was into her sexually despite him only being on Feabie for friendship reasons. That and the only reason he was talking to her was to talk her out of committing suicide.

According to him, this whole thing of being manipulated with threats of suicide and then being attacked on the internet over this had made him want to delete his social media accounts. With comments like yours, I can see the motivation for doing so. I didn't think he'd delete his account so soon though. I wonder if he even realized that deleting his account also deleted his posts. Would an admin be able to restore his last 2 posts so we can all see his side of the story?


This is why we quote replies, so we can see them after account deletion.
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Anyone been badly burned on feabie?

Had two dates from Feabie both about 2 years apart.

First person everything actually seemed ok, we went on 7 dates, had a good time we got along with each other extremely well. Was going to pick her up for our 8th date, was standing outside her apartment, after about 10 minutes tried calling her got no response, eventually the person across the hall came out and the girl and her roommate moved out the day before. Tried calling and texting her to figure what's going on but never heard back from her.

The 2nd chick is the only time I've ever ghosted someone. Went on 2 dates, things went well. Then one morning she ask if I can meet her at a ihop by her place for breakfast. Told her I couldn't as I was just about to clock in for work, put my phone in my locker and didn't think much of it. Got back to my phone and had about 400 texts, and 30ish voice mails. Blocked her number, her account, and everything else I could think of because...honestly anyone that responds to "sorry I can't, about to clock in" with that is probably a bit looney

Just realized I should of read past the title, apparently OP was a ass?
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Anyone been badly burned on feabie?

biggirlsok:
Had two dates from Feabie both about 2 years apart.

First person everything actually seemed ok, we went on 7 dates, had a good time we got along with each other extremely well. Was going to pick her up for our 8th date, was standing outside her apartment, after about 10 minutes tried calling her got no response, eventually the person across the hall came out and the girl and her roommate moved out the day before. Tried calling and texting her to figure what's going on but never heard back from her.

The 2nd chick is the only time I've ever ghosted someone. Went on 2 dates, things went well. Then one morning she ask if I can meet her at a ihop by her place for breakfast. Told her I couldn't as I was just about to clock in for work, put my phone in my locker and didn't think much of it. Got back to my phone and had about 400 texts, and 30ish voice mails. Blocked her number, her account, and everything else I could think of because...honestly anyone that responds to "sorry I can't, about to clock in" with that is probably a bit looney

Just realized I should of read past the title, apparently OP was a ass?

CrushedHeart49:
I just found out yesterday that a guy I had been talking to since last fall on feadie that he have given me a fake name and address! I sent him a gift and post office imformed me that their was no guy by that name and no address as I was told by him....So yes I have not had any luck with guys on this site or Feadie both sites are full of scamers and fake people..I dont trust anyone from online any more!!


Now to be honest I have made a few friends on Feabie, but trying to find anyone for a date is neigh impossible it feels like.

That said I can at least say Feabie has been a better experience then tinder or the one girl my cousin and his GF set me up with.....so there's that I guess.

That said holy shit, that sounds awful. On the bright side you found out now, and not say after you decide to go visit him.
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Anyone been badly burned on feabie?

Never tried 'dating' anyone on any of the 'fatty' sites (as I'm married).
So, maybe they are all as bad ?
All I can say is :
I have never had anyone bad-mouth me, insult me, cuss me, or beg me for anything at all on here.
On Feabie however, every time I posted anything, I was jumped on by ignorant, mouthy, mostly women (not being sexist here, but 95% were women). The language I was attacked with was just crazy, with no provocation at all. And the amount of desperate begging PM's I got was a daily ritual.
I'm a nice man, I use manners, I'm respectful, but none of that seemed to matter on Feabie, and I would class the place as an absolute cesspit of arrogant, ignorant, and mouthy immature people. I met two decent friends on there, that was it.
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