Fat experiences

Gaining and sexuality

I was wondering if anyone else has come to explore other aspects of sexuality through gaining.

All my life, I identified as a straight man.

I was very attracted to fat women, then identified as a feeder (despite never having the chance to feed a woman).

Soon after, I realized that I wouldn't mind getting bigger myself.

The more time I spent on sites like this, deciding whether or not to gain, the more I found myself doing double-takes at photos of men.

Then I started having some... very interesting... dreams about big, fat men.

Now I would love to actually have some sexual experiences with a big, mature fat man.

It has been a wild roller coaster ride of emotions and self-discovery.
4 years

Gaining and sexuality

well it seems that it s normal thing to happen as it happen to me to. perhaps admiting to ourselfs the sexual pleasure of gaining alows is to feel confortable and curious to try other things
4 years

Gaining and sexuality

I think its OK for you to explore your sexuality and your desires.
I felt that way about chubby and fat girls/ women. Feeling their soft plush bodies rubbing mine and how exciting it was.
Enjoy exploring.
4 years

Gaining and sexuality

My experience is a bit different from yours.

I am, and always have been a straight man. I simply don't have any kind of attraction to men. I also find body hair repugnant on myself or others, and men still usually don't remove it.

I too, started off as an FA, who likes to see when women gain to at least 200 lbs. I have some feederism tendencies, but they're only kind of intense if I think she's too thin, which would be anything under 200.

At a certain point, I think it was both a combination of being too thin (horrible that I used to be 120-125 at one point) and curiosity. Gainers seemed to be having so much fun, and surely... 10 more lbs wouldn't really be a game changer, if I didn't like it. There's also the fact there's no social advantage to being a thin man, and the average American male now weighs 200 lbs. I was sick of being too skinny, and decided to do something about it.

35 lbs later, I really enjoy it and I only want to gain more, grow thicker, and get a softer, wider butt. Sitting down is even more comfortable than it used to be, and I like how I can eat more than I used to, although I still want a larger appetite.


But, I've noticed something else. If anything, my desire for heavy women has only become more intense, almost more of a need than a want. Like how it's almost not even an option anymore.

I try to keep an open mind, and I know it depends greatly on her personality and who she is as a person, but if she is far too skinny, I just can't see it happening anymore. And I feel slightly terrible for saying this.

Under 150 really is far too thin now, unless I know for a fact she wants to gain a lot of weight. Like I said earlier, what I really want is 200-250, possibly more (give or take some). Has a bit to do with how she carries her weight, but it's got to be substantial.

I wonder if this will become even more intense as I get closer and closer to my weight gain goal. Only one way to find out!

Does this make any sense?
4 years

Gaining and sexuality

As a very gay man who's not fat and identify as a feeder, I started looking at straight porn of BBWs and Feedees and I enjoyed them alot, I guess I get off on that dynamics rather than the person itself, I would never have sex with a woman, just because it feels unfair of me to experiment on unsuspecting people, also because I prefer to have an active/dom role when it comes to sex so I need to be 100% in it. But still, I take a double look whenever I see a big lady in the street, and I always wondered what do big lady boobs feel like smiley
I guess what I'm trying to say is that sexuality is fluid, especially in a community like this, where I see more and more people who constantly blur the line between genders, sexuality and conventional roles.
I guess fat conquers all smiley
4 years

Gaining and sexuality

I'm attracted to Fat. I don't care if it is a
Woman or a man. I am totally straight sexually. But I wouldn't mind being with either just to caress and play with each other's big Fat Bellies
4 years