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Will my sex drive stop me from being in a relationship?

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Zelda64   United States
Joined 5 years
whenever I see a guy I'm attracted to instantly feel aroused. Like just the thought of them and how they are fat just turns me on so much. I mean I could just stare at a guy and if he is chubby I will become instantly aroused. It's like I don't even think about the person themselves and it makes me feel terrible sometimes. I fear that I would just be incapable to be in a relationship with this fetish in my life because I will be too obsessed with wanting them to gain weight and with their belly. I also fear that when they start gaining, I will just be constantly aroused by them.
5 years

Will my sex drive stop me from being in a relationship?

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Zelda64   United States
Joined 5 years
Zelda64:
whenever I see a guy I'm attracted to instantly feel aroused. Like just the thought of them and how they are fat just turns me on so much. I mean I could just stare at a guy and if he is chubby I will become instantly aroused. It's like I don't even think about the person themselves and it makes me feel terrible sometimes. I fear that I would just be incapable to be in a relationship with this fetish in my life because I will be too obsessed with wanting them to gain weight and with their belly. I also fear that when they start gaining, I will just be constantly aroused by them.

saturn:
I totally understand that girl 🌈🐱
(Derreck, if you see this, you know what I mean *giggles)


Is it a problem for you or are you okay when in a relationship?
5 years

Will my sex drive stop me from being in a relationship?

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Fatrnfatr   Fiji
Joined 22 years
Zelda64:
I also fear that when they start gaining, I will just be constantly aroused by them.


If you accept yourself and find someone with compatible needs this could be a blessing. As people age, they tend to gain weight. If your sex drive remains strong over time (as it does for many feeders), this might help in maintaining a strong sexual connection as you and your partner age.
5 years