annabelly:
Anybody else nervous about seeing people you haven't seen since the quarantine started? So many of my friends have no idea I gained weight. š§
Honesty, like, 98%!of the time Iām a confident, happy, and an overall badass *** with the super power to ignore diet culture and mainstream body ideals. But a lot of thatās come from having gained my weight intentionally, and with thoughtful decision making along the way.
I havenāt had time to prepare my ego for the potential reactions, or rehearse a decent excuse I can put into a witty quip at my expense, thatāll let me take the piss out of myself while preempting then from sharing those reactions...
my advice is to come up with those 2 things and you might have some semblance of a plan..?? š¤·š»āāļøš¤£