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whenever I see a guy I'm attracted to instantly feel aroused. Like just the thought of them and how they are fat just turns me on so much. I mean I could just stare at a guy and if he is chubby I will become instantly aroused. It's like I don't even think about the person themselves and it makes me feel terrible sometimes. I fear that I would just be incapable to be in a relationship with this fetish in my life because I will be too obsessed with wanting them to gain weight and with their belly. I also fear that when they start gaining, I will just be constantly aroused by them. If anyone is a feeder are you constantly horny where it is an issue or is it just something that it enjoyed and appreciated on occassion?

I'm a female feeder and my boyfriend is aware of my often all-consuming lust for stuffing/weight gain/his belly! I have to rein myself in occasionally, but he doesn't mind it at all; he's actually gotten into it in a way and tells me that's because he loves seeing how into it I am, how excited it gets me. With anything, there's the risk of overdoing it, but if you ease into it and gauge his reaction as you become more and more open about it, you just might find you can be yourself completely, with no issue at all! And if not, there's always a middle ground.

And realistically.. most guys don't take much of an issue with getting to relax and let go a little and have their partner be even more turned on by that

what do you mean by all consuming. Im scared that my Im just going to be constantly be horny

My experience is similar to the other posters. Start slowly and be open an honest with him. But him a dessert and bring up feederism, and see what he knows. There are plenty of men out there who will enjoy being pampered and growing. Men are putty in the hands of a confident strong woman.

Im fearful of myself. Im scared that my desires will be too strong. Like I would be constantly horny and be obsessive on wanting him to gain.

So? Just be honest, and let the chips fall where they may. If it is that important to you, don’t suppress it. I followed my desires and I have helped many people become the fat hogs they wanted to be. I became a nurse so I could learn how to properly care for a growing feedee

Honestly as he's been gaining, I am horny constantly, and when he sends me pics of his belly, or we're together and I see it, or he's eating a bunch, or whatever, everything else disappears and I'm just *obsessed* with him/his body/him eating. It's always on my mind, I'm always thinking about how hot I think he is, what kinds of treats I could pick up or make for him, etc etc. But being horny all the time isn't necessarily bad! It's kind of electrifying. And obviously he loves that I'm constantly raring to go haha

I think the only "problem" that exists here is your worries about it! If you can put your mind at ease on that, and embrace the fun of the whole situation, I'd bet it'll be a total non-issue and you'll both be totally fine and happy

I suggest you both learn to cook and bake. It will be very helpful

Definitely a game changer. Somehow his capacity seems to grow like magic when he has homemade goodies in his hands rather than store bought stuff 😏😅

Homemade stuff always tastes better. And you have control of the ingredients and the quantity of what he is eating. I have learned how to add weight gain power from gnc into my baking, to make them extra fattening. It practically doubles the calories and fat content.