Extreme obesity

[quote]qqkilos:
i like the idea of taking care of someone that can’t do daily tasks but i don’t want to fatten someone up to get there. i am too scared to mess someone’s health up !

If you want to help care for someone, there are thousands of caregiver jobs where it’s common to give baths, help people get dressed, change diapers, give meds and help clients go out in the community. That may interest you

The people who need that level of care span all ages, sizes , race, and preference. My bother, wayTooThin, needs that level of care everyday and he is not fat at all

One thing to consider is building up his stamina strength etc... it’s really easy to gain too fast and suddenly feel awful (out of breath tired etc) not to say you can be 600 lbs and totally healthy but you can be quite massive and still functional.

When I gained 25 lbs in a few months I suddenly found basic every day things exhausting and was out of breath. Once I got used to carrying that weight around I felt better even after gaining another 10 on top of that.

Just something to think about though. This kink is fun, but there are risks

I'd love to fatten up a guy as big as he wants as long as he's not immobile, it might be hot in fantasy but in real life it's not!
A) I'd feel so guilty about it
care taking 24/7 is hard and not realistic

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With my gains I've found every new struggle, difficulty or restriction has been more enjoyable and motivating than the last.

I think my ideal weight, with a supportive partner/feeder, would be to be fat enough that I can move around somewhat but with effort/struggle. The kind of size where I'm not truly immobile but it's easier not to move unless I really need to. It's very rare to find someone with an interest in that kind of thing though.

It also hard to find female feeders. But here I am. Wouldn't mind to gain weight and being fattened up for you.

Recently i met my boyfriend and finally i can describe my kink as been a feeder. Although i fantasy i would like to make him gain and gain in real life i m worried about his health. For me is not a turn on that he is house bound cause i am very active and i want to enjoy things with him like going to the cinema, the theater, eat at a restaurant. I want a partner.

No. In fantasy it's fun but not in real life for me. I like my partner to stay active.

It would be a fantasy come true to find that.

My concern would be the inevitable cost of care and time that comes as they get bigger. Yes I'd want to spend as much time caring and doting and doing as many of the carer role tasks as I could. But the realities of having a full time regular job would cause a shortfall from me on time and funds.

But if there were a feedee out there that could comfortably fund their portion of such a journey... sign me up.