Lifestyle tips

It doesn't sound like you're bisexual. It seems like what you're attracted to in fat men is the fat itself, not the man. Also the way you talk about dick (not looking at the dick in porn and stuff) is the way I feel about dick, and I'm a lesbian.

on one hand sexuality exists on a scale and it's a spectrum, and not all sex has to do with genitals and yada yada... on the other hand your "attraction" to fat men, seems to me more like a projection! I'm completely gay and sometimes I find myself watching female feedee porn!
also seems to that many straight feedees like the Idea of having a same sex friend to gain with and or contrast with and they don't seem to mind even some form of body contact or even feeding sessions, I think they are more attracted to the dynamic of a feeder/feedee relationship rather than the gender of the person!

Envy perhaps? Or it’s just that you’re attracted to fat and the fattening process, not necessarily sex. I consider myself asexual mostly because I’m not attracted to genitalia of any sex but instead the process of getting and being fat is what gets me going (autosexual? is that a thing?) but also panromantic because I do have romantic relationships from time to time. Sexuality is a spectrum (not a scale, that’s an outdated concept) just like a previous poster said, so it’s not always clear cut and when you make a distinction between sexuality and romanticism it can get even more complex.

As a straight female feeder/fa, I feel this way as well, sometimes when there just isn’t enough male feedees posting content, I just switch over to the female side. It has very little to do with the gender identity and more to do with the fat or gaining process for me. Though sometimes I even prefer female content for the curves. Despite this I feel pretty solid and confident in my sexuality! I don’t think it makes you inherently bi, but if you are curious there’s no harm in exploring that. though based off of what you said it does seem to be more about the fat than the gender for you like other posters mentioned.

I've never been typically attracted to men, however, I find myself taking interest recently in obese men. I would never want a serious relationship witb a man, however I have been recently considering sex with obese guys and find their bellies cute in their own special way from a cute female belly

This is a good topic as I hate sex as a concept and find the act horrid and I can't understand people who are turned on by intercourse during porn.
But I do feel that tingle when I see a big belly instead but nothing about it makes me say "I want to go to bed with them". I just don't want to do it. I would rather feed or be fed than having any sort of sexual activity.

Interesting, you don't even like to be touched or have your fat being appreciated? (sorry if I sounded too ignorant, I'm just trying to understand intimacy from the point of asexual people, if that how you like to identify yourself)

Well your profile says that you're very much into being as big as possible, so maybe you're projecting, you're turned on because you want to be them, not because you want to be with them ... some straight identifying guys are even turned on by the idea of being fed and fattened up by other male feeders fat or thin, I suppose they just love the dynamics of that relationship no matter who's on the other end of it.
But sexuality is fluid and is changing all the time, I encourage you to try new things as long as you feel comfortable and safe.

Yes, that is correct. I am very uncomfortable with someone touching me and I also don't appreciate comments from people I don't know.

I do identify myself as asexual and my level of intimacy stops at cuddles and casual chatter in close proximity.

I'd say a more accurate phrase is 'fatsexual'