General

This is mainly directed at female feeders / fat admirers, but I think it would be interesting and educational for everyone to share their thoughts and opinions here! So, in terms of men being feeders / gainers, which of the following do you find most attractive / preferable:

1. Do you prefer a man who is:
A ) Very hairy
B ) A bit hairy
C ) Not hairy at all

2. Do you prefer:
A ) To play an active role in feeding a feeder/gainer
B ) To take on more of an encouraging role and let them feed /gain themselves

3. When it comes to bellies, do you prefer:
A ) Round and hard bellies
B ) Soft and flabby / squishy bellies
C ) Somewhere in between

4. What's your opinion on moobs?
A ) I don't really mind either way
B ) I don't like them
C ) I like them
D ) The bigger the better

5. Do you prefer a feedee/partner who is:
A ) The lazy type, who isn't very active and prefers to avoid too much exercise
B ) The active type, who still does active things like taking long walks etc.

6. Do you think that seeing your feedee reach physical limitations because of their growth is:
A ) Something desirable
B ) Desirable as long as they're not immobile
C ) Not very desirable
D ) Don't really mind either way

7. Do you like your feedee/gainer to:
A ) Simply enjoy their food and eat what they want, when they want
B ) Be focused and measured with their gaining with daily/weekly targets etc.

8. Do you prefer your feeder/feedee relationship to be:
A ) Purely online / distant
B ) In-person and / or a physical relationship
C ) A fun activity but not part of a serious relationship

9. Finally, for those who do like an in-person/physical relationship, in real life terms do you genuinely prefer to:
A ) Keep the feederism as a privately shared thing between you and your feedee
B ) Be open about it with friends and/or family
C ) actively show off your partner in public
D ) a mixture of the above

Those are all the questions I personally have so far. Share your answers and feel free to elaborate on them. Let's see how many opinions we can gather and what we can learn about each other!

Thanks for those interesting questions! Here are my replies!

1. B
2. rather B, so i love to encourage but i would also love to bring them food and cook a lot for them. Sometimes i would also like to feed them (so a little A too) bit i am not into sloppiness/messiness
3. B
4. C
5. A, i want to be the sporty part. But i would still love him to be strong
6. A. I love seeing a fat man struggle to to basic activities because of their size (not fitting in a chair, walking up stairs...)
7. both. He definetly should be a huge food lover that just wants to eat a lot. I am not into force feeding some gainer shake. But i would like him to just enjoy a lot of good food. Also i maybe would like to weigh him every now and then, see his clothes getting thighter and measuring his belly. So both
8. all 3
9. C

Thanks for the interesting question. Here's mine.
1. Personally, I wouldn't mine which one. But, I'm not sure I like them very hairy.
2. Mostly A, but mixtured with B is nice too
3. B
4. D
5. mixture between both, I'm quite active person so it'd nice if they willing to do some activities together while maintaining his laziness. I dunno if this makes any sense 😌
6. B
7. A, all matters to me is their happines, so I don't mind them gaining on their own pace
8. Mostly B
9. B

1. C, but I can roll with B
2. B
3. C, honestly anything.
4. B
5. B
6. B
7. A
8. It depends on who they are and where they are, my attraction towards them, etc.
9. D

1. Do you prefer a man who is:
B ) A bit hairy ... Depends on where it is lol
C ) Not hairy at all

2. Do you prefer:
A ) To play an active role in feeding a feeder/gainer &
B ) To take on more of an encouraging role and let them feed /gain themselves

3. When it comes to bellies, do you prefer:
C ) Somewhere in between

4. What's your opinion on moobs?
A ) I don't really mind either way

5. Do you prefer a feedee/partner who is:
B ) The active type, who still does active things like taking long walks etc.

6. Do you think that seeing your feedee reach physical limitations because of their growth is:
C ) Not very desirable

7. Do you like your feedee/gainer to:
A ) Simply enjoy their food and eat what they want, when they want

8. Do you prefer your feeder/feedee relationship to be:
A ) Purely online / distant
B ) In-person and / or a physical relationship

9. Finally, for those who do like an in-person/physical relationship, in real life terms do you genuinely prefer to:
A ) Keep the feederism as a privately shared thing between you and your feedee
C ) actively show off your partner in public

1. Do you prefer a man who is:
C. Because I already don't like men, smooth boys are in my interests.

2. Do you prefer:
A. Would love to be a pizza deposit box

3. When it comes to bellies, do you prefer:
A,B,C. All bellies are great

4. What's your opinion on moobs?
A ) I don't really mind either way


5. Do you prefer a feedee/partner who is:
B ) The active type, who still does active things like taking long walks etc.

6. Do you think that seeing your feedee reach physical limitations because of their growth is:
B ) Desirable as long as they're not immobile


7. Do you like your feedee/gainer to:
A ) Simply enjoy their food and eat what they want, when they want


8. Do you prefer your feeder/feedee relationship to be:
C ) A fun activity but not part of a serious relationship

Are you fattening someone right now? I might know someone who needs help and encouragement 😉