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I love when people gain weight. I love when people are overweight, thick, large, husky, obese, whatever it is you want to identify yourself as I dig it. My biggest fantasy, like many of yours, is my partner gaining weight because of me. And I love every aspect of it. But I have noticed more and more stretch marks and things if that nature on myself and it's bumming me out. I fluctuate weight a LOT (medical stuff, don't worry I'm healthy for me ) but it bums me out that I can't appreciate the weight gain if my own body the way I can other people. Do any of you feel the way I feel? How do you get around it?
As always, you have all of my love!

I used to feel that way a lot, and I still do occasionally. The thing that helped me the most was to stop comparing myself to other people and allowing myself to just be. It's easier said than done, but it's worth working on.

It's nice knowing that other people know what I'm feeling! I'm really glad you're doing your best to take your own advice, because you are simply stunning. Thank you for the kind advise

No problem, dude! And thank you! ^.^