I recently met an ex who had some of the exact same behavior and she taught me about how some women SUBCOMMUNICATE and that some women will show that they have concern for you but it was actually concern for the social status that they will have being with you because in our social climate; being an obese man isn't a status symbol nor is it status worthy for some of them. This bit of information taught me to date those who come from a culture in which fat is seen as a positive and it has helped me tremendously.
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