Gaining

By yourself can be fun but when it comes to finding someone you want to be with it gets hard. If you look in this fetish, there isn’t a lot of people that want someone that’s already 300-400+ they want the experience of fattening them up. On the flip side of that, there isn’t a lot of “normal” people that want to be with a 400+ person. I’m 400+ and single, I’m not saying this to dissuade you, just be aware of the pitfalls.

Not necessarily! I am hugely attracted to lbs300+ men.

Well first, Hey, what’s up? If you want to chat just let me know
Second, that’s great. However they’re people, especially feeders that find it erotic to take a skinny person and make them huge, making a huge person bigger is a rarity, at least of what I’ve seen. Obviously gaining won’t be the intent but it will definitely play a roll and you can’t gain to much more if your already 400+. Just saying

I totally understand. I'm trans, so dating has been a challenge for me anyway. Gaining weight, for the most part, probably won't help me in that area. Having said that, I have wanted to be fat ever since I was a teenager, and it has been such a thrilling experience to finally indulge that desire. Even going it alone, the experience has been 100% worth it.

Your checklist looks spot-on. I definitely recommend a sedentary office job. I have learned that even simple tasks, like kneeling and bending, can start to become tiresome at heavier weights.

While gaining, you might be able to find larger size clothing at thrift shops, if you want to keep costs down. I have also found heavy whipping cream to be an incredibly cost effective way to gain. It has been so much cheaper for me than trying to eat a lot of fattening food.

I highly recommend getting your own place, without roommates. It's such a liberating experience. I get to spend my time at home, wearing just a bodysuit, and I don't have to worry about offending someone who thinks I'm showing too much skin. It just makes life so much easier.

Best of luck, and happy gaining!