Fattening others

For myself personally anything that goes beyond chubby and into really unhealthily and morbid obesity terrorize is where I start to lose attraction?

I do like very large bodies, but almost conversly, I don't like unhealthy or inactive partners.

Someone who seriously indulges in food and gradually has made themselves very large and plush but maintained good.strength and mobility and is social and likes.to.go out and explore is an ideal.

I mean, I really enjoy feederism as part of my love.of larger bodies but one major part of feederism is the sharing of gastronomic experiences out of the home.

Watching my wife [over]indulge in new places as we travel is something we both enjoy.

In good years that has been walking the streets of new cities with a restaurant guide (gault millau or Michelin usually) in hand visiting 4 to 5 places a day that are recommended. In not so fruitful times it has been exploring bout local cafes or new.parts of town whether in NYC London TLV BCN or Manchester where we have lived in the last 7years.

It's hard to explore when one of you is not in to having a stroll through an occasional city. This can be driven by weight and fitness along with general attitude.

I've had thin partners that aren't go getters, and my largest partner who was just shy of 300lbs at 5'0 was still (somehow) a basketball coach and loved to walk across London stopping regularly at cafes and having a latte and pastry.

I guess, as much as I love the idea of being with a very large partner, mobility is a big issue for me.

My biggest partner has been 500 pounds and she was amazing. I have not yet found a "limit."

Beauty is in the eye of the beholder, and one of the things I find attractive in a partner is confidence, and that comes with being at peace with yourself, so I’d say as big someone is comfortable with.

I don't believe there is an upper limit on size for me. My stopping points would be her not being able to care for herself and for her being physically unwell.

But if a woman could be mobile and well at 900 pounds, I'm pretty sure she'd turn me on.

One thing a lot of people are forgetting: this is highly dependent on height. Had a bf who was 6'5 and 280 who carried the weight super well. He was close to 300 but if you saw him you'd say he was merely chubby. Could definitely have been attracted to him all the way up to 450 or maybe 500. But had a friend who was right around 250 and 5'4. He was for sure starting to approach my limit.

But like mentioned above being able to be active is highly dependent on all of this. If you are short and close to 400 but can still get around I don't think I would mind.

But ideally for me I would love to be in a relationship where my partner would gain and lose since I am more into the gaining aspect of things.

This. It's not a lifestyle for me, it's just a sometimes-for-fun thing. And it does seem rather often in this community (such as with topic questions like this) that it's easy to forget that every person involved is still human first.

There's a lot more I could say about it but that would completely derail the thread so I will save it for another time.

I would love a sexy wife in a wheelchair

I don't have an upper limit either and of course it depends on a woman's height. My desires have grown along with American women's weight. While at first I liked chubby women best, being a member of sites like this has really opened my eyes to the attractiveness of super sized women. Now someone in the 350 to 600 lb. range really lights my fire. As others have said I would want my partner to be happy with her weight and be mobile enough to enjoy life. I would never want them to gain beyond what they are comfortable with.

A lot of people talk a good game but I'd bet 90% of them wouldn't last in a relationship with an immobile or near-immobile partner.

First of all the cost of food to keep someone actively gaining is out of this world, you need to have deep pockets to afford buffet type feedings daily or consistently. Its one thing to hook up with a feedee for a weekend, its another thing to live with one. Obviously genetics and metabolism are a big factor in how large someone is, its not always about food intake...but when you hear women on OF say they need $50 for one stuffing, imagine 3 of them daily.

Second of all, do you have ANY idea how expensive plus sized and supersized clothing is? A bra at Lane Bryant goes for $50 a whack. Now add in dresses, leggings, shirts, underwear for women or trousers, underwear, beltsand shirts for men....thats at least $200 for one outfit.

Third, better get ready to get acquainted with supersized issues. You need a huge vehicle to be able to get your partner around and either a high quality mobility scooter or sturdy walker just to go anywhere. You'll also need a bidet or a custom made toilet because normal toilet seats arent meant for 500+ pound keisters. Also youll need reinforced couches, beds and chairs which are all expensive.

Thats not counting the health issues that come with it meaning several trips to the ER for bedsores, heart palpitations, trouble breathing or injuries sustained from simple falling or breaking furniture. Thats not counting serious health issues like pneumonia, lupis, covid or diabetes.

Last, get ready to do all the work yourself. Not just cooking, cleaning and simple chores. If your partner really cant move that means you'll have to bathe them and wipe their behinds if necessary. The fantasy sounds hot, but the reality is far different. Coming home after working hard or you have a bad cold and still have to cook, clean, do chores and bathe/wipe your spouse...sounds fun doesnt it?

Again, you can talk a good game, but is that what you REALLY want? Is it??