It could be nice to offer a new option for members: being enabled to accept or not to received messages on their profiles or whether they want or not to talk in a private chat.
Some people are solely here to read stories, weight gain entries, forum topics, to look at pictures, etc and may not want to interact or be contacted by members.
It would also be a good thing for people new to the whole « feederism world » would like just to be left alone to figure out what they like until they are ready to talk with others. Because, let’s face it, it can be overwhelming sometime to be here and even scary when people with lack of knowledge of how human interaction works decide to contact you.
As for the private chats, I am well aware that if people come in the chat room, they, implicitly, accept to be talked to but they may want to chat only in the main room. They could close private chats each time one pops up but it would be easier to deactivate that option and members who wish to initiate a conversation would not waste a private chat with someone who do not want to talk.
I do know that we can write in our bio that we do no want to be contacted. Although a lot of people do not read bio’s before sending a message: that option will save their time and, maybe, teach them to read a profile thoroughly before doing anything.
Having such a possibility would be a good way to uphold « active consent » (credit to a friend for that wording) too.
I have no idea how this can be done or how much it would cost though; it’s just an idea.
I am not a native English speaker so if there is any grammatical or spelling mistakes bear with it, thank you.
Some people are solely here to read stories, weight gain entries, forum topics, to look at pictures, etc and may not want to interact or be contacted by members.
It would also be a good thing for people new to the whole « feederism world » would like just to be left alone to figure out what they like until they are ready to talk with others. Because, let’s face it, it can be overwhelming sometime to be here and even scary when people with lack of knowledge of how human interaction works decide to contact you.
As for the private chats, I am well aware that if people come in the chat room, they, implicitly, accept to be talked to but they may want to chat only in the main room. They could close private chats each time one pops up but it would be easier to deactivate that option and members who wish to initiate a conversation would not waste a private chat with someone who do not want to talk.
I do know that we can write in our bio that we do no want to be contacted. Although a lot of people do not read bio’s before sending a message: that option will save their time and, maybe, teach them to read a profile thoroughly before doing anything.
Having such a possibility would be a good way to uphold « active consent » (credit to a friend for that wording) too.
I have no idea how this can be done or how much it would cost though; it’s just an idea.
I am not a native English speaker so if there is any grammatical or spelling mistakes bear with it, thank you.
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