It can take a while to be comfortable with gaining weight and being fat when you’re not turned on. The anxiety of what others think usually goes away. For me that was the biggest thing but I overcame that when I got to like seeing myself fatter and fatter. Then it’s not just a sexual fetish but really how you feel. I think we all waver. It’s 1 step forward, 2 steps back, 1 forward, 1 back, etc. It’s not always a straight line progression.
3 years