NYCBellyBlimp:
Honestly wishing I had prepared better, knowing if my confidence was higher years earlier, I would have waited and saved $ vs buying the 5-6X clothing so soon vs the 2-4x that would fit (even if snug). Regretful as that could have went to food, savings or other expenses as I look back.
Being on the darker end of this lifestyle than most I would come across, I'm thankful to have listened and watched some experiences others have had and learn from them.
WideJuan76:
I felt that same way years ago but that fat realization comes when it comes. Had I known that there were women out here who not only loved fat men they wanted them to get even fatter than chubby. Hell, I would have done this post college and would have been set up for a whole infrastructure to complement what I was to become. I didn't find my obese mentor until I moved down south and he still advises me even up to as recent as yesterday.
NYCBellyBlimp:
Always good to have someone give a sincere heads up.
It is but most dudes don't even realize that there are more out there like them. When I met him down south, he had several guys and ladies that he was mentoring. I didn't realize til then that this was actually a thing especially in our community