Fat experiences

Dating a fat non f/a

fatjigglegirl:
I’m in a non feederism relationship.
My partner is taller than me and fatter than me. He doesn’t have a fat fetish but he is fat. We are both fat. He doesn’t know about my fetish and he thinks I hate being fat, and he hates being fat, mainly complains about his waistline. We’ve joined gyms together in the past which I purposely sabotaged by suggesting we get high and order pizza instead. Because he lives on his own I buy snacks for his apartment sometimes, twinkies, chips, donuts, lots of milk chocolate, and other really unhealthy snacks. When I met him in high school I chose him because he was overweight. He weighed about 240lbs when we first started dating. And everyone gains a lot during the first year so I went from 220 to 240 and he gained about 10 pounds. But he’s a big guy who likes to eat, but is insecure about it. Over the past 4 years he’s gained 80 pounds, I’ve gained 60. He always tries to get us to eat healthy and work out but then gives up on it and the next week we go back to bingeing. But now being over 300 pounds is scaring him even though the doctors said his health is fine he’s just fat. Like, he’ll joke about being fat, lift his belly onto the table, put on a tight shirt, stuff food in his mouth, thinking he’s being funny. 4 years with him and he doesn’t know how much his “joking around” turns me on. I love feeling his hanging belly fat rub my clit during sex and I love lifting his belly up during head, but it makes him insecure. I know he hates feeling tired and heavy all the time. I love him and I care about him but oh god do I want him to stay fat and keep getting fatter.


Sounds like a happy union indeed, much like mine :-) Nothing says love like enjoying being fat together!
3 years

Dating a fat non f/a

Fatprincessx:
I think you should tell him how much his body turns you on. I was on the opposite side of this relationship. My fiance is a feeder and I had no idea, I always stressed about my weight, I was so embarrassed and ashamed of my body. He would drop hints here and there and would reassure me that I was attractive but I always just thought that he was just saying that because he had to. I never really found out until I found some stuff on his phone that he had been looking at and we talked about it. The moment I realized that he wasn't just saying that stuff to be nice- he really did love my body I was able to let go of all of that shame and feeling of not being good enough. Now he is my feeder and I love it! I never thought I would be into this because I spent so much time hating myself because of my weight... But finding out that he was a feeder was a total game changer in our relationship and now we both couldn't be happier 💕


I hope to achieve this step with my own wifey :-)
3 years