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When you became fat, did people treat you differently?

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MarshmallowMinotaur   United States
Joined 8 years
A couple of times someone said something.

A former coworker I hadn’t seen in years told me I got chubby.
My sister once said “hey, what happened?”
My aunt, on two occasions remarked in front of others that I got tubby.

I was offended then but not anymore. I strike first. I have tee shirts that say Chubby Guys Cuddle Better; Living The Chubby Bearded Life; I Hate Being Sexy But I’m A Chubby Bearded Man So I Can’t Help It; If You’re Into Chubby Bearded Guys Then Hello.

I’m fat, I like being fat, I’m proud of being fat. Now if anyone says anything I shrug and say “Yeah, and...?” Puts them right off their guard. lol
4 years

When you became fat, did people treat you differently?

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WideJuan76   United States
Joined 13 years
Ditzy:
Yes and especially by my eventually ex husband and my Mother.

johniav:
My mother is a great lady. However, she always makes it a point to let me know when I have gained weight.

chubbydiva:
Same here since I became the fat one out of my mother and sister.


Yeah, my mom was really the person that I was worried about because I had talked to her when I moved down South but she hadn't seen me because I basically went down there to gain in the first place so once I got past her slick comments I paid no attention to anyone else.
4 years

When you became fat, did people treat you differently?

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MottiF   Israel
Joined 8 years
Etiola:
DEFINITELY. People were way nicer to me when I was skinny or thin.

Very sad to ear that. I was teased by family but I was able to say the last word about it, I told them I was thin long enough, and a little more fat will not do me any harm, and they accepted it, although they did trying to put more healthy food on table.
4 years

When you became fat, did people treat you differently?

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Wolffeeder   United States
Joined 4 years
BHMZach:
one thing I have noticed since getting big is that people will offer me more food, it’s either letting me know there is extra or leftovers...


I know the feeling...
4 years

When you became fat, did people treat you differently?

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WideJuan76   United States
Joined 13 years
Ditzy:
It was comforting to see my ex's wife is no longer shapely and is well on her way to being a fat cow.
I mean that in the nicest way too LOLOLOL


I am so glad you said this because it is like fat revenge. I had exes who was fascinated by my girth but grew tired of it only to see them years later and they look miserable with their beer bellied guy when that had my hanging gut so readily available to them but they messed that up. Lol.
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