Fat experiences

I found these questions on tumblr, I believe they are good way to introduce oneself!

For everybody:
1. Are you a: gainer, encourager, mutual gainer or all of the above?
2. Sexuality?
3. Are you on grommr, feabie or any other gaining related websites?
4. What brought you to fantasyfeeder
5. online crushes crushes?
6. Best gaining and FA blogs or websites?
7. Are you in a relationship? If yes is it a feederism relationship?
8. What did you think about your “urges” before you discovered that gaining was a thing (we’ve all been there)
9. What do you like most about this community?
10. What do you hate most about this community?
11. What is your earliest memory about this scene?
12. What is your weirdest memory about this scene?

For gainers:
13. Are you now or have you been actively gaining before?
14. How long have you been actively gaining?
15. What is your current weight?
16. What are you current measurements?
17. What size clothes you’re wearing?
18. What is your goal in gaining (physically)?
19. When it comes to relationships you prefer: a thin encourager, a fat encourager or another gainer?
20. When it comes to encouragers do you prefer: forceful, pushy, teasing, handsy, romantic, submissive, good cook? (multiple options are permitted)
21. Would you date a civilian? If so would you tell him about you gaining wishes?
22. Have you had casual feeding sessions? Would you like to (or more)?
23. Being fed by another person or nom by yourself?
24. Eating while fucking (or being fucked)?
25. Forcefeeding?
26. Being teased?
27. Being humiliated?
28. Being worshipped?
29. Bossing around an “obliging” encourager?
30. Are you: Dominant, submissive, switch or doesn’t apply?
31. Your biggest fantasy gaining wise?
32. Your most intense fantasy gaining wise? Would you like to go for it IRL?
33. What is something you think you did right when it comes to your gaining lifestyle?
34. What is something you think you did wrong when it comes to your gaining lifestyle?
35. Describe your perfect partner in 3 to 5 sentences.

For Encouragers:
36. Are you now or have you been actively encouraging anybody before?
37. For how long?
38. What is your goal in gaining (physically)?
39. When it comes to relationships you prefer: an already obese person, a new gainer or it doesn’t matter?
40. When it comes to gainers do you prefer: Dominant, shameless, proud, submissive, romantic, a lifter or shy? (multiple options are permitted)
41. Would you consider fattening up an unsuspecting partner who’s not into gaining?
42. Would you consider gaining for your partner?
43. Would you date a civilian? If so would you tell him about you feederism wishes?
44. Have you had casual feeding sessions? Would you like to (or more)?
45. Feeding someone or let him nom by himself?
46. Feeding while fucking (or being fucked)?
47. Forcefeeding?
48. Teasing a fatty?
49. Humiliating a fatty?
50. Worshipping a fatty?
51. Serving a bossy gainer?
52. Are you: Dominant, submissive, switch or doesn’t apply?
53. Your biggest fantasy that related to feederism?
54. Your most intense fantasy related to feederism? Would you like to go for it IRL?
55. What is something you think you did right when it comes to your feederism lifestyle?
56. What is something you think you did wrong when it comes to your feederism lifestyle?
57. Describe your perfect partner in 3 to 5 sentences.

just to get the ball rolling!
For everybody:
1. Are you a: gainer, encourager, mutual gainer or all of the above?
Encourager
2. Sexuality?
gay
3. Are you on grommr, feabie or any other gaining related websites?
grommr
4. What brought you to fantasyfeeder
looking for people with similar interests
5. online crushes ?
many
6. Best gaining and FA blogs or websites?
tumblr is good for gaining content, used to be better though
7. Are you in a relationship? If yes is it a feederism relationship?
No
8. What did you think about your “urges” before you discovered that gaining was a thing (we’ve all been there)
I've had them since I was a kid, then I started thinking I was weird, now I fully embrace my my live for bigger and growing guys!
9. What do you like most about this community?
self acceptance
10. What do you hate most about this community?
extreme fetishization, hostility towards anyone who wants to stop gaining, and worst of all creepy people who manipulate their partners into gaining! gaining should be consensual always.
11. What is your earliest memory about this scene?
I was that kid who stared at fat people mouth open!
12. What is your weirdest memory about this scene?
fantasizing about finding
many .. but when I was 6 or 7 I had an imaginary friend who was a fat centaur!
For gainers:
DOESN'T APPLY

For Encouragers:
36. Are you now or have you been actively encouraging anybody before? No
37. For how long?
38. What is your goal in gaining (physically)?
I want my partner to feel comfortable with his fat body
39. When it comes to relationships you prefer: an already obese person, a new gainer or it doesn’t matter?
Doesn't matter but the act of participating in fattening up another person is very hot.
40. When it comes to gainers do you prefer: Dominant, shameless, proud, submissive, romantic, a lifter or shy? (multiple options are permitted)
Proud definitely, I like some teasing and light BDSM so a bit submissive in bed would be good but not necessary.
41. Would you consider fattening up an unsuspecting partner who’s not into gaining?
NEVER
42. Would you consider gaining for your partner?
Not my thing really .. but it might happen naturally.
43. Would you date a civilian? If so would you tell him about you feederism wishes?
Yes up until now I've only dated civilians, I never told them about my feederism, but they've all known that I like bigger guys.
44. Have you had casual feeding sessions? Would you like to (or more)?
Yes
45. Feeding someone or let him nom by himself?
Both
46. Feeding while fucking (or being fucked)?
Not my fantasy but I don't mind it either
47. Forcefeeding?
Can be fun from time to time
48. Teasing a fatty?
Love some loving teasing.
49. Humiliating a fatty?
Nothing in public, just love to test his physical limits from time to time
50. Worshiping a fatty?
Body and fat worship is hot
51. Serving a bossy gainer?
Not my thing, but I can do it from time to time if that what they liked.
52. Are you: Dominant, submissive, switch or doesn’t apply?
Mostly romantic with dom tendencies.
53. Your biggest fantasy that related to feederism?
Long term feederism relationship
54. Your most intense fantasy related to feederism? Would you like to go for it IRL?
Not sure what's too intense when it comes to feederism.
55. What is something you think you did right when it comes to your feederism lifestyle?
took my time to discover it and accept it, some people throw themselves into it before they are ready and it doesn't go well.
56. What is something you think you did wrong when it comes to your feederism lifestyle?
Cam sex.. not for me!
57. Describe your perfect partner in 3 to 5 sentences
Fat, proud, loves food, loves to cuddle and show his body.

1. Are you a: gainer, encourager, mutual gainer or all of the above?
Unintentional gainer. Just a feedee.

2. Sexuality?
Bi

3. Are you on grommr, feabie or any other gaining related websites?
Feabie

4. What brought you to fantasyfeeder
I saw the name mentioned a few times and was intrigued. Thought opening up about all this might feel liberating (and to some extent, it does).

5. online crushes crushes?
Sure. Little ones.

6. Best gaining and FA blogs or websites?
I like it here. A couple tumblr blogs too.

7. Are you in a relationship? If yes is it a feederism relationship?
It has some feedee elements but we don’t call it that. It’s also not about gaining. But my partner loves cooking for me and making me big AMAZING calorific cakes and seeing me enjoy them & likes my big belly 🥰

8. What did you think about your “urges” before you discovered that gaining was a thing (we’ve all been there)
Deeply ashamed and afraid of the thought of letting go and being out of control. The thought of freedom from dieting felt scary, like the prison door was open but I was too scared to step outside.

9. What do you like most about this community?
It really opened my eyes when I discovered other feedees who had previously had eating disorders or very poor self image. I’ve seen feedism be a very cathartic thing.

10. What do you hate most about this community?
Some people are too quick to dish out the degradation. To strangers. We’re not all into being degraded!

11. What is your earliest memory about this scene?
I saw Japanese Marshmallow Girls online many years ago and despite being on a diet, I thought “actually I’d (also) like to look soft and chubby and sweet like them.” Now that I’m here, those words are still what I aim for.

12. What is your weirdest memory about this scene?
🤷‍♀️

For gainers:
13. Are you now or have you been actively gaining before?
I’m gaining, but it’s just a result of my love for food/dessert. Not deliberately trying to gain, it’s just part of the package.

14. How long have you been actively gaining?
I’ve been gaining for a while but most significantly since the UK’s first lockdown.

15. What is your current weight?
215lbs

16. What are you current measurements?
Not sure!

17. What size clothes you’re wearing?
UK 24

18. What is your goal in gaining (physically)?
I don’t have one

19. When it comes to relationships you prefer: a thin encourager, a fat encourager or another gainer?
Slightly chubby encourager or ideally, a skinny one who’ll get a little bit chubby in the process.

20. When it comes to encouragers do you prefer: forceful, pushy, teasing, handsy, romantic, submissive, good cook?
Good baker 😻 romantic and caring. Use food as a way to show your love and care for me, and tell me how cute I look chubby 🥰

21. Would you date a civilian? If so would you tell him about you gaining wishes?
Sure. Probably not

22. Have you had casual feeding sessions? Would you like to (or more)?
Yes & yes

23. Being fed by another person or nom by yourself?
Another person couldn’t feed me as fast as I wanna eat 😋 a bit of both is nice.

24. Eating while fucking (or being fucked)?
Fuck afterwards. Especially if the food was really delicious.

25. Forcefeeding?
Nope nope!!

26. Being teased?
Just a little bit. Affectionately.

27. Being humiliated?
Very very lightly

28. Being worshipped?
Sure!!

29. Bossing around an “obliging” encourager?
Sure

30. Are you: Dominant, submissive, switch or doesn’t apply?
Switchy. I don’t really switch with the same person, the dynamic depends on who I’m with.

31. Your biggest fantasy gaining wise?
Feedee wise, an all-you-can-eat buffet but it’d be centred around sweets and pastries 🥺

32. Your most intense fantasy gaining wise? Would you like to go for it IRL?
🤷‍♀️

33. What is something you think you did right when it comes to your gaining lifestyle?
Learning to cook a bit more!

34. What is something you think you did wrong when it comes to your gaining lifestyle?
I think I gained a bit fast at one point. My body didn’t really know what was happening. I blinked and 20-30lbs appeared lol.

35. Describe your perfect partner in 3 to 5 sentences.
Someone I can be silly with, who’ll make me feel safe and cared for & who adores me as much as I adore them. They’ll let me have the last slice of cake.

For everybody:
1. Are you a: gainer, encourager, mutual gainer or all of the above?
Gainer!
2. Sexuality?
Straight
3. Are you on grommr, feabie or any other gaining related websites?
I’m on feabie, albeit rarely, under the same name
4. What brought you to fantasyfeeder
The stories originally, and now I’m here!
5. online crushes crushes?
Nah
6. Best gaining and FA blogs or websites?
Askdrfeeder is nice
7. Are you in a relationship? If yes is it a feederism relationship?
No
8. What did you think about your “urges” before you discovered that gaining was a thing (we’ve all been there)
I felt real gross at first, but now those feelings come less and less often
9. What do you like most about this community?
Seeing all the beautiful people!
10. What do you hate most about this community?
The folks on here who are only interested in me sending pics or videos of my body for immediate satisfaction
11. What is your earliest memory about this scene?
12. What is your weirdest memory about this scene?

For gainers:
13. Are you now or have you been actively gaining before?
Actively gained from Mar-July 2020, and the rest has just kinda came on
14. How long have you been actively gaining?
See above
15. What is your current weight?
217-ish
16. What are you current measurements?
I don’t have them on hand...last I checked my bust was 43 but that’s not right anymore
17. What size clothes you’re wearing?
XL/1X and 16/18
18. What is your goal in gaining (physically)?
First goal: 250
19. When it comes to relationships you prefer: a thin encourager, a fat encourager or another gainer?
I like the contrast, so someone thinner or at least built would be nice
20. When it comes to encouragers do you prefer: forceful, pushy, teasing, handsy, romantic, submissive, good cook? (multiple options are permitted)
All of the above
21. Would you date a civilian? If so would you tell him about you gaining wishes?
I’ve tried and could never bring myself to tell them
22. Have you had casual feeding sessions? Would you like to (or more)?
No, but I’d like to.
23. Being fed by another person or nom by yourself?
I’d prefer to be fed by someone else, but I nom on my own for now.
24. Eating while fucking (or being fucked)?
Never tried, sounds nice tho
25. Forcefeeding?
With limits, sure
26. Being teased?
Within reason
27. Being humiliated?
See above
28. Being worshipped?
Sure, I’m a fucking goddess after all
29. Bossing around an “obliging” encourager?
I’ll try it
30. Are you: Dominant, submissive, switch or doesn’t apply?
I’m more sub than anything
31. Your biggest fantasy gaining wise?
Being absolutely immobile and having a doting partner take care of me
32. Your most intense fantasy gaining wise? Would you like to go for it IRL?
Just the transformation from small-fat to unable to get out of bed is such an erotic thing to think about. If limits didn’t exist I’d never stop growing.
33. What is something you think you did right when it comes to your gaining lifestyle?
Drinking HC early in my journey.
34. What is something you think you did wrong when it comes to your gaining lifestyle?
Not finding a feeder partner sooner, waiting way too long to buy clothes that fit
35. Describe your perfect partner in 3 to 5 sentences.
My partner would be kind, caring and able to put up with my ever-changing appetite. He would love every second of my gaining, including showing off my growing body in public. A good mix between forceful and sensual and sweet is also a plus.

For everybody:
1. Are you a: gainer, encourager, mutual gainer or all of the above?
Primarily a Gainer, but definitely an Encourager as well.

2. Sexuality?
Asexual

3. Are you on grommr, feabie or any other gaining related websites?
Not enough to be worth noting.

4. What brought you to fantasyfeeder
The fiction section originally

5. online crushes ?
Nope

6. Best gaining and FA blogs or websites?
Mostly here, some Tumblr.

7. Are you in a relationship? If yes is it a feederism relationship?
Nope, I'm Aromantic, it's why I identify as a Gainer and not a Feedee

8. What did you think about your “urges” before you discovered that gaining was a thing (we’ve all been there)
I've always wanted to be fat, never really worried about it.

9. What do you like most about this community?
At least the parts I interact with are pretty chill.

10. What do you hate most about this community?
Some of you all take this into some really dark places.

11. What is your earliest memory about this scene?
The scene specifically? Probably finding the Dimensions Library.

12. What is your weirdest memory about this scene?
The first time finding people in a Yahoo Group talking about fattening someone without consent in real life.

For gainers:
13. Are you now or have you been actively gaining before?
Yep

14. How long have you been actively gaining?
Off and on for 21 years

15. What is your current weight?
Between 385 and 390

16. What are you current measurements?
61-65-57 lol, be more specific if you want more than 3 sizes.

17. What size clothes you’re wearing?
4-5xl

18. What is your goal in gaining (physically)?
I want a belly that hides my bits. Eventually I want it reach my knees.

19. When it comes to relationships you prefer: a thin encourager, a fat encourager or another gainer?
If I have an encourager I want a fat one who has tried what they're recommending.
I'd prefer a mutual gainer, even if they're smaller than me.

20. When it comes to encouragers do you prefer: forceful, pushy, teasing, handsy, romantic, submissive, good cook? (multiple options are permitted)
In person, good cook is a must.
In general, teasing or a bit pushy. Don't want romantic. Handsy is fine.

21. Would you date a civilian? If so would you tell him about you gaining wishes?
No, as mentioned earlier I'm Aromantic.

22. Have you had casual feeding sessions? Would you like to (or more)?
Yes, and I would love to do more.

23. Being fed by another person or nom by yourself?
I prefer by myself. Nothing wrong with feeding as long as the feeder doesn't get carried away.

24. Eating while fucking (or being fucked)?
No, unless while masturbating counts.

25. Forcefeeding?
Not interested

26. Being teased?
Depends on the setting, it can be fun

27. Being humiliated?
See 26

28. Being worshipped?
Haven't experienced it, could be fun

29. Bossing around an “obliging” encourager?
Not my thing

30. Are you: Dominant, submissive, switch or doesn’t apply?
Doesn't apply

31. Your biggest fantasy gaining wise?
Mutual gaining, any scenario.

32. Your most intense fantasy gaining wise? Would you like to go for it IRL?
A couple fattening each other to supersized, like 500-600 pounds. I'd definitely be up for it.

33. What is something you think you did right when it comes to your gaining lifestyle?
Optimized my living space for minimum movement.

34. What is something you think you did wrong when it comes to your gaining lifestyle?
Picked jobs that didn't mesh with it well.

35. Describe your perfect partner in 3 to 5 sentences.
Don't really have one.

For Encouragers:
36. Are you now or have you been actively encouraging anybody before?
I have before, not currently.

37. For how long?
A couple years

38. What is your goal in gaining (physically)?
I've helped 2 ladies get to the 350-400 range.

39. When it comes to relationships you prefer: an already obese person, a new gainer or it doesn’t matter?
Doesn't matter as long as they're determined to gain.

40. When it comes to gainers do you prefer: Dominant, shameless, proud, submissive, romantic, a lifter or shy? (multiple options are permitted)
Shy is a cute starting place, but shameless and proud is where they're headed.

41. Would you consider fattening up an unsuspecting partner who’s not into gaining?
Never. It's all about consent.

42. Would you consider gaining for your partner?
Yep.

43. Would you date a civilian? If so would you tell him about you feederism wishes?
Nope, still aromantic

44. Have you had casual feeding sessions? Would you like to (or more)?
Yep, if I had someone who wanted to try it.

45. Feeding someone or let him