General

I'm a closeted chubby chaser.
I've been lurking on this site since I was 13.
It started with cartoon episodes (looking at you, grandma stuffum) and deviantart comics, then FF stories, and that's where it's been at for the last 8 years.
I'm bisexual, and while I'm generally attracted to all women, I've hardly ever crushed on a skinny guy. They were all chubby, at least 90 kilos.
On one hand, I want to experiment with the fetish - try a little bit of stuffing, a little bit of sub/dom action. I love the fantasy of a guy I like not fitting into his pants. On the other hand, I don't want to freak anyone out. I don't want this to be a lifestyle thing - I want my partner to be fit and healthy, to be able to work out with me etc. I'm also aware of the social implications. It's mostly just a fantasy for me.

Does anyone on here feel the same? Has anyone managed to satisfy their curiousity without it having serious consequences?

Definitely! One hot night of stuffing isn't going to have significant consequences for anyone's figure. Just requires a willing partner you can trust. Enjoy!

How should I put this... On some ways yes and on some ways nah.
So ive been into this for years, tried stuffing and bloating and neither did feel good.
My girlfriend gained a little, shes always eat whatever she wants but u know... Aging has its consequences.
So she gained a little unintentionally and ever since then ive been excited and worried both.
Well, she indeed is a chubby and stuffing her does feel great but shes said it that even though she enjoys watching me enjoy it, shes not planning to ga
in intentionally.
Even if she was gaining I wouldnt like it to go overboard and be unhealthy.
Dunno does this answer any but little stuffing here and there wont change the world.

I totally understand. That’s definitely where I was at for years. Then whoops I stumbled into dating a guy with the same fetish and I realized that this thin ideal I was chasing...who was it for? It certainly wasn’t for me. I made up my mind then to stop dating people I wasn’t attracted to because it made no sense. My friends noticed I only dated bigger people and might comment, but most thought it was cool and were commenting to praise. It’s still an option to work out with someone who is fat, or you could work out with another close friend and let your partner do their own thing. This fetish feels confusing because our culture demonizes fatness, but there’s actually nothing shameful about being fat or being attracted to fat bodies. You’ll figure out what’s best for you, it just takes time. Be patient with the process and with yourself.

I lurked on Dimensions when I was 17 and joined when I was 18.

Totally nothing like it is now. It wasn't very welcoming at all. Lot of old, gatekeeping hags that thankfully are no longer around or with us. Lot of kink shaming, lot of fighting.

FF is nothing like that, very welcoming.

Feabie on the other hand, I pray for any 18 year old male for the horror he's about to go through on there.