EIIe:
I’m the fat one in the relationship... we both knew coming to the table that we were both kinky but hadn’t discussed a lot of specifics besides being open to bdsm, and general sex positive really open attitudes.
I think the first time I took off my shit he immediately touched my belly and said, I love bellies! I enthusiastically said, me too and we proceeded to make out like crazy.
It’s been almost a year and we’ve never had a blunt discussion about a fat/feeder fetish but he never hesitates to buy me snacks I like and spoil me (in all the ways) and cook for me!
I am the dominant one in the relationship and I have stroked him off using my fat rolls and he loves it... but still no specific conversation... we have gone into deep conversations about our D/s Mommy/boy dynamics tho!
Someday we may have it but honestly just enjoying each other and having a genuine loving connection is a bigger priority for me.
I would start with getting a feel for how sex positive and kink friendly they are... that goes a long way in understanding and building trust. I need to know I’m not going to be shamed for being me.
“That’s hot!” :-)
