General

A fetish is something people have, not something you can force on people or make them enjoy it like you do.

Popularity for fetishes shouldn't be a thing, People should never be into a fetish because its "trendy" It cheapens the people who are honestly into it, and still will be once the trend passes.

When feederism got popular, women just used it to make money and it became a job. In my opinion, it basically killed the fetish for the most part. Most people who joined in the past few years can't imagine not paying for it, or using this to get paid.

We need to make it less popular if anything. Men need to get a backbone and stop paying for women they'll never meet.

You need to come back out of your shells and put some work in. Refuse to simp. If more people start doing this. the honest feedees will make a come back.

Popularity is what got us here in the first place.

Super true

If you really want to find your feedee then keep your circle small, go to bbw clubs/parties as re-opens slowly occur and keep an eye out for red flags.

Takes time to find someone open, willing and similar level as you.

Feederism doesn't need to be made more popular as there were more genuine people before when it was taboo. More people see $ signs and electing to have surgery (when they feel uncomfortable vs when it was a last alternative) than before.

Perhaps feedism needs its own Caitlyn Jenner. An openly feedist famous person or couple. Ana Faris and Chris Pratt came close but not quite.

Oh how I'd love to see the gatekeeping on Feabie if feederism was ever mainstream popular. Watching the Murphys and Sassys of the world go apeshit that their little cave gets exposed to the real world would be worth it. Everyone already crapped themselves when tiktokers figured out you can scam ppl in the Syndicate, imagine hundreds of thousands more just like that.

Thank you!! I swear I about to say that cause I have plenty of trans friends who despise her. And with good reason

But on the real, Not everything needs to be mainstream. Everything from martial arts, bodybuilding, geek culture, BDSM, Hip Hop, prostitution, Etc. got ruined once it went mainstream. Like ole girl said, it’s disingenuous get into a hobby just cause it’s trending cause it’s an actual way of life to some people. Not something you just over flood and then when it’s no longer fun, you just leave without cleaning up the mess you made.

Like her or not, I think she made being trans a bit more mainstream.

Maybe a reality tv show?

The participants in reality shows usually end up being made to look bad. Could be fun for us feedists to watch, but I don't think it would help the cause!

Best thing would be a TV show where there was a feedist subplot. Maybe one character gains over a series of episodes and then there's an episode where it comes out that she's a feedee. And there would be some drama about that but eventually everyone accepts it and moves on.

This was sort of done on the Drew Carey show but the feedee character couldn't handle it and left Drew because he was too accepting of her weight gain! Ultimately it was not quite the message we'd prefer.