I'm not ashamed to be attracted to fat people- everyone has preferences, and frankly, I don't see much stigma around it from others these days. Even when I do, it doesn't come anywhere close to ruining the pleasure of meeting and dating someone I consider beautiful.
However, I do feel iffy about the fetishy aspects of my attraction, although it's mostly because I know that the vast majority of fat people aren't turned on by it themselves. Based on past experiences, I'm constantly worried that people will think I'm ONLY dating them because they're fat, or that I'm just using them for sex... and sometimes, I worry about that myself.
4 years
