Extreme obesity

I've been gaining quite rapidly the last month or so, and it doesn't seem to be slowing down. I'm aware that as I get fatter, the chance of me finding a partner gets thinner (ha). So considering the fact I've been broken up with over getting too fat, where do you all set your limits? At what point does someone cross the line of becoming "too fat"?

Never too fat for me. Maybe too fat for themselves.

too fat for me personally is immobile/needing assistance constantly to manage themselves. This varies from person to person on size. I think if people aren't willing to date you for being fat, they aren't worth dating anyway and are stuck in fatphobic values.

When I'm unable to wipe my ass after taking a dump.

I don't have a weight limit. Feeding someone past the point of no return would be part of the fun.

With Heather and Kuchen here. I just wanna keep getting bigger until all I can do is feed myself.

Personally, I feel that this question completely depends on who you ask. For me personally, I feel that there is no such thing as being too fat and would enjoy immobility and having someone take care of me because I'm too fat to reach all of my body. However, this is totally different for some other gainers, as they wish to get fat, but not so fat that they have to deal with serious lifestyle changes and struggles from being too fat. To each their own I guess....

There is no such thing as too fat for me, even if you are 1200 lbs and immobile

The limit I put on all feedees I have is they have to be able to move around and look after themselves. If a feedee lives with me as a partner I often don’t like them to do a lot for themselves but they have to be able to. I’m fine with them being dependant on me but they have to be able to be independent physically,
Both because I have no interest in making that much of a commitment and I think at that point you probably aren’t living a full life.
I had one feedee who was happy sitting on the couch and being fed. She wanted to be controlled, dominated and dependant on her feeder. But I still believe she needed the freedom to be able to leave.

I’ve found setting little limits is a great game for feedees and gainers. Every 20 to 40 lbs my last feedee would set a new limit and seriously say that was it, and of course it never was. That’s half the fun.