Zelda64:
Is anyone here's partner engage in their feeder fantasies but is not into the fetish themselves?
So, I am not sure if I am quite what you are thinking of... But I was introduced to FF by my boyfriend, and I didn't know anything about feedism before meeting him.
I'm not really "into" the whole gaining/feeding thing, but I can attest that just being on FF and reading more about it, I can kind of see how it appeals to people. And since I am attracted to fat people, there's definitely some overlap with my own interests. As we've played at things like feeding, I am finding myself getting more interested and engaged in it, but it's not a huge part of our intimacy or anything, I think.