Lifestyle tips

So I have a feeling that my partner may want to talk about kinks and fetishes soon, and I’m pretty nervous. She’s told me that she would like me at any weight, but it wasn’t in a feedee context, just accidental weight gain. It feels different than telling her that I purposely want to fatten myself up to become a BBW, and I’m afraid of judgement, but I also want to be open with her. Do any other lesbians have any advice for me?

Thanks, this does help a bit. And I’m actually trans too. Even though my partner does seem to be very kink friendly, and even if I already knew ahead of time that she would accept it, it still feels really embarrassing to admit that I want to be very fat on purpose, even if I’m nowhere near the extremes of other people on here, and I want to be as healthy as possible doing so. Shame and stigma are very big obstacles for me.

She hasn’t hinted at that, but it would be a very pleasant surprise if that was the case. Also if everything does go right, I am also in the broke college student part of my life, plus I’ve got to hold back on gaining for the rest of my surgeries.

Well thank you for everything! It may be annoying that we can’t fatten ourselves yet, at least we’re lucky enough to start out skinny enough to get our surgeries. I feel really bad for trans folks who are denied surgery for their weight.

Oh that actually makes a lot of sense! I could see a trans girls plumping up on purpose to increase their feminine features, and vice versa with trans men. Do you mind sharing some of the twitter handles for these queer fat kink artists please?

I would be interested in some of those Twitters as well, if you could message them to me, too? 😁

Alright thanks everybody, I still haven’t told her yet since there was no natural way to work it into a conversation, but it sounds like she’s embarrassed by whatever her fetish is too, and she is pretty empathetic, plus she said she would be ok if I gained weight (we weren’t talking in a feederism context about weight). It seems like even she doesn’t get it, she would be accepting. It’s just still embarrassing to admit to wanting to put on least a hundred extra pounds on purpose.